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July 2008 Your Stories



“Sheltering an Animal’s Perspective”
by Gregory M. Simpson

It was more than six years ago, just after 9/11, that desperation set in. Having trapped, spayed/neutered and vaccinated 19 cats and kittens from my neighborhood, one last female cat was tenaciously eluding capture. She already had two litters which I trapped. I did not want to face a third litter and had exhausted my list of people to call for ideas and help. It was time to think creatively. Going for a long shot, the name of Ellen Perry Berkeley came to mind. She is the author of the seminal book on ferals, Maverick Cats, included by Cat Fancy in the “100 Great Moments of 20th Century Cats.” First published in 1982 and updated in 2001, this book mentions her hometown in Vermont, so directory information was summoned, and voila, her phone number was available!

Despite not knowing me, this warm, kind, soft-spoken, internationally known author graciously accepted my phone call. She provided me sage counsel and sustaining moral support until the female cat was trapped and spayed, without having an additional litter! What I did not know from the first phone call with Ellen Perry Berkeley was that our relationship was only just beginning.

As we grew to know each other through letters and phone calls, I described to Ellen my animal welfare avocation. Along the way, I began writing “Sheltering an Animal’s Perspective” in one newspaper which has since spread statewide. I would send the initial columns to Ellen and she generously commented, drawing on her impressive background as a writing teacher at Harvard, Columbia and UC-Berkeley, and as past senior editor of Architectural Forum. She is also the author of many books, and articles for such magazines at Cat Fancy, Cats Magazine and I Love Cats. Her 1984 article in Cat Fancy on the neuter-and-return of feral cats was the first in an American publication on this humane method of controlling the feral cat population.

In short order, I progressed from a man desperate to aid feral cats in my neighborhood to having a mentor for writing and animal welfare work. Ellen’s help did not end there. A few years into our phone calls, e-mails, and letters, Ellen suggested that I consider membership in the Cat Writers’ Association (CWA). Once again, she selflessly offered to assist me, this time through sponsorship into the association. Considering that membership in CWA was a perfect match with my animal welfare pursuits, I agreed, and am now a member. There is no person more than Ellen who better exemplifies the highest ideals of the CWA vision – to promote communal support, networking, and mutual respect between colleagues.

Ellen has continued to write and to tirelessly aid cats. She is on the advisory board of the national organization, Alley Cat Allies, and in 2004 published, TNR: A History of the Trap-Neuter-Return Movement.

To assist Protectors of Animals (POA) in Glastonbury, of which I am a member, she will generously donate $4 to POA for each copy of Maverick Cats sold through the shelter’s efforts. Please consider purchasing a copy of this book that The New York Times reports is full of “Amusing portraits….intriguing information.” Cat Fancy described the book as “first-rate in every way…entertaining, informative, well-researched, thorough…a definitive work.” One may order directly from Ms. Berkeley at Box 311, Shaftsbury, Vermont 05262. Indicate with your payment of $14.95 that you would like $4 of the purchase price sent to Protectors of Animals. I am deeply grateful to Ellen Perry Berkeley for making this fund raising activity possible for Protectors of Animals, Inc. and for being my mentor.

And remember, as Ellen Perry Berkeley says, “As every cat owner knows, nobody owns a cat.”

For the animals,

Gregory M. Simpson

Gregory Simpson’s animal welfare involvement spans over 25 years, having provided leadership for several Connecticut organizations, as well as having served as state advisor to the national Friends of Animals. Currently a Board member of Protectors of Animals, Inc., he was chosen by CAT FANCY magazine as one of the ultimate cat lovers in the U.S. He is also a member of the Cat Writers’ Association.
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A New Play in Meriden
Compiled over the last 4 years of articles and current events.

The new Hubbard Park Playground “Adventure Hollow” has a ribbon cutting on Wednesday, July 2nd at 5:30. The Hubbard Park Playground Committee and Noah’s Ark of Hope, Inc. invites all to attend.

It’s been a long road to get to this point and it’s important to share the story and how folks can accomplish much even as they are faced with many challenges.

Four Years Ago
One Meriden mom, Dawn Reynolds, thought, “What would it take to get a new playground for Hubbard Park?” As she began to explore that option four years ago, she never imagined there would be so much involved in getting something that seemed so obvious and elementary underway. And, so, four years later, after hundreds upon hundreds of hours of footwork, planning, politics and an unforeseen tragedy, the simple observation of Nierenburg-Reynolds is now a playground that belongs to everyone in Meriden.

She started calling the Meriden Park and Recreation Department head who did not return any of her calls but finally found an ally in Christian Bourdon who is the Recreation Program Supervisor for the City of Meriden. In response to an email from Mayor Mark Benigni, Mr. Bourdon said, “Mr. Mayor, The department is in agreement with Mrs. Nierenburg-Reynolds. The current playscape site is not safe, very inaccessible, and unsuitable for the type of playground that Hubbard Park deserves. A new location must be found that will eliminate these concerns. The suggestion of a citizens' committee is a valid one. Parents, especially those that frequent Hubbard Park, would be able to offer input on the location, type of playground, and assist with any fundraising. This playground should be the best & biggest one in Meriden. Should you choose to commission such a committee, I would be glad to serve on it as the City's liaison. Thanks. Chris Bourdon.”

Shortly thereafter, the mayor formed the Hubbard Park Playground Committee. The two-person committee consisting of Dawn A. Reynolds and Chris Bourdon, who had volunteered himself to serve as the city liaison, grew to include Maryann Santos, Amy Filippides, Steven Iovanna and later Joan Goodman. There were also many who joined and provided vital information to the final report of the committee requested by the City Council and prepared in July of 2005. (See final report in a following page.)

Then the real work began.

The Committee first had to research, research and research. Every aspect of the playground was considered from site location, components, safety, environmental impact and so much more. The committee has gone around to different playgrounds to look at the colors, textures, building materials, ground materials and have compiled that information to use for the new playground the best of what they’ve explored.

The most important aspect of the playground is that it is barrier free so that children of all capabilities have a place to play together.

As Joan Goodman said, her son has a friend in his class that uses a wheelchair. At recess, she is not able to play games with him and the other kids on the playscape, and that makes her son sad. He can’t invite her to play at the park after school because there is no place in Meriden to do that. “That is not right. She is one of my inspirations for working on this playground.

“With this playground, children of all abilities can play side by side and have fun together. When children play together and have fun, they learn about one another and differences don’t matter. They take this with them as they grow up,” Goodman said.

Then there was the process. A hard process does not begin to express what they had to go through. Countless City Committees, Departments and other groups were met with and several concerns by the above were eventually resolved upon review of the entire plan that would benefit so many. In the end, after so much work, the City approved the Playground in July of 2005. Tracey Ivers spoke on behalf of the committee at the city council meeting.

By late 2006, the committee had raised just under $89,000.00 towards the playground.

August of 2006, tragedy struck with the passing of Noah Bourdon who was the son of Christian Bourdon and Sarah Bogdanski-Bourdon. To lose a child and deal with the loss is courageous enough but that they then committed themselves to provide a lasting memory of Noah is incredible. Noah’s Ark of Hope, Inc was formed and its first fundraising project was the playground. Sarah so eloquently stated in a story (see in this issue), “Our experience in losing a child and our parenthood is not a unique one - many parents who have lost children have contacted us. We are trying to focus on something positive - something that will give us hope. We look to Meriden's citizens not just to support this project because of our family and our story but because of its importance to all families. It is a unique opportunity to invest in the present and in the future.”

Nierenburg-Reynolds said of them, “I want to thank Chris and Sarah for believing in our work together. You have to step back and take pause, the strength and bravery of this family has compelled the whole of Meriden to give from their hearts for this beautiful, worthwhile cause, a place where we can all play together. And I know this will be the first of many projects for Noah’s Ark of Hope, Inc.”

At that time, Noah’s Ark of Hope, Inc. pledged $100,000.00 towards the playground. Based on fundraising efforts they soon raised the pledge to $175,000.00. The amount of support by various groups, foundations and the community at large was overwhelming and Noah’s Ark of Hope, Inc. soon surpassed its pledge. Recently, the State of Connecticut also approved $100,000.00 towards the playground. For more from Noah’s Ark of Hope and Mr. Christian Bourdon see story inside this issue.

The playground was well on its way and the Hubbard Park Playground Committee presented its final report and recommendations to the City. Thereafter, the City of Meriden took over the site choice, playground design and choice of vendor.

Mayor Mark Benigni said of the final project, “This playground will bring smiles to the faces of so many youngsters for many years to come. I am so thankful for DawnNierenburg-Reynolds and the Playground Committee for teaming up with Chris and Sarah Bourdon to make this dream a reality. This playground is atestament to all that is right about our city and something that I am veryproud of. Thank you to all the volunteers and donors, Meriden hassomething truly special!”

Now that it is completed, Dawn Nierenburg-Reynolds had this to say;
“The project itself has been an emotional rollercoaster. It is beautiful to see what can be accomplished when we let our hearts lead the way. If I had known what was to unfold and how it was to unfold, I would have packed my bags and walked. I now believe that is exactly why we need to walk through this world without knowing what the future will hold.
In the beginning and in the end I did it for my children, they are my love, my joy and my passion. I wanted my children to know that you can make a difference. I do want to thank all of my teachers along the way. Some of you will know who you are and some of you would never guess. Thank you.”

So in closing – join the so many others who will celebrate not only the playground but what a community can do TOGETHER! These are the things that matter in life and the playground is living proof of that.

A Talk with Christian Bourdon of Noah’s Ark of Hope
I had the honor of talking with Mr. Bourdon and asking him the questions below. I would like to thank him for taking the time to answer.

It's been a long challenge to complete this playground, hasn't it?

It has been a challenge to get the playground completed, but not necessarily a long one. I always thought that the hardest part of it would be fundraising, but in retro spect it was one of the easiest parts. It was so successful and achieved in such a short period of time that it set unrealistic expectations to the playground's physical construction. So it may have seemed long, but for a municipal construction project, I think it proceeded at a normal pace.

I think Dawn and the rest of the Hubbard Park Playground Committee really deserve a great deal of credit in bringing the playground to fruition. They "carried the torch" when this was not a popular project and did an outstanding job in raising awareness about it. They set the groundwork for later fundraising efforts to succeed. Dawn was a very capable chairperson who educated herself extremely well about playground design and advocated for the best playground possible. Her contributions should be appreciated by the parents of every child who uses the playground.

Your family has gone through so much but made a commitment to this playground, how do you feel about it now and has it helped in any way?

Both Sarah and I have mixed feelings about the completion of this project. Of course we have been overwhelmed by the community's support and just how many people have helped in bringing it to fruition. It will provide countless hours of fun for our family members, friends, neighbors, fellow Meriden residents, and many, may people who we will never know. That being said, we also know that our Noah will never to use it. Our commitment to the project was made in the days after his death, so being involved with it has given us something positive to focus on. It is very important to us that Noah be remembered as a child who inspired a wonderful playground for others rather than a child who died on a playground. So in some ways there will be a void for us to not be as actively involved in the playground's construction as we have been for the past year and a half. It is quite paradoxical.

Is there anyone who your family and Noah's Ark of Hope, Inc. would like to thank or any final words on your part?

Sarah and I would like thank everyone who helped bring the playground to completion. From the major donors to the everyday folks who gave what they could, it was a total community-wide fundraising effort. Many businesses donated their services & products and many people gave their time to assist at our events. The Hubbard Park Playground Committee advocated for this playground when its support was low and also contributed significantly to the fundraising efforts. The City forces that constructed the playground went above and beyond what they were asked to do. And the L. Suzio Co. has done so much for this playground without wanting any recognition in return. The playground truly is a community gem because it represents what can be accomplished when people work for the good of others. The potential is limitless.


Hubbard Park Playground Committee Final Report

Meriden’s Hubbard Park needs a new playground. The existing structure is made of splintering pressure treated wood and broken or damaged plastic components.

We, the Hubbard Park Playground Committee, have also observed and experienced the close proximity to a major road, West Main Street, the difficulty parents, grandparents and caregivers have keeping their children away from the stone steps down to the water, or the waterfall as well as the struggle the parents have bringing strollers up and down to and from the playground parking area that sits above a full flight of stone stairs. Additionally, though we understand that the bathrooms were to be opened during park hours, when we have visited the doors still remain locked.

We have found either, modified site #5 (across from the duck house) or site #3 (behind the pool) suitable for a parent friendly ADA compliant playground. Site number five enjoys the support of the Park and Public Works Department. Site #3 is acceptable to the conservation commission. Both are workable.

Site #3 has plumbing in place. Fewer trees would need to be cleared and a parking lot is already exists close to the site.


Either site will need to meet the current needs of families residing in Meriden. With the help of a recent survey we circulated through Meriden’s Elementary School System with the cooperation of the Park and Public Works Department, we have come to the conclusion that:

1. We should look into a location further away from West Main Street.
In coming to this conclusion we have considered the current safety codes which, to our understanding, would require that any new playscape be set 100 feet from a road such as West Main Street.
This would significantly reduce the play area. The current codes will also disallow replacing the swings where they once stood parallel to the stone wall.
2. A fully ADA (handicapped accessible) playground should be in place.
3. A major consideration for this playground should be stair-free ground level access, from a parking area to the playground.

****Please review the surveys we have received back from Meriden’s elementary school parents.
Very early into the process we discussed the possibilities of creating a ramped access point from the parking area as well as creating a parking area from below the existing playground area. We concluded that the necessary changes to that area would alter the character of the park.
4. We recommend clean well maintained bathrooms.
5. Bathrooms are to remain open and available to the public during park hours.
6. A water fountain
7. A fence
8. Additionally, site depending, we recommend the appropriate safety features,
a. I.e. a phone, lights etc.
9. Trash receptacles should be on-site
10. Benches and picnic tables in the vicinity.
11. Naturally or artificially, shaded areas should be available.

These recommendations would allow a greater number of our parents, grandparents and caregivers to enjoy Hubbard Park, and all it has to offer, with their children.


Love to Play. Play to Grow. Grow to Love.

Noah's Ark of Hope, Inc.
Article From October of 2006

By Sarah Bogdanski - Bourdon & Christian Bourdon

The main theme of the song "Seasons of Love" from the play Rent is how is the life of someone measured? With the recent loss of our son Noah we have had to look at this in many ways. What was the purpose of his life? How do we show others who never met him what his one year meant, what he was like and how he loved? What will be the ripple effect of his life? Can one year really make a difference? In Noah's short life he experienced many things: hikes through Meriden's beautiful trails, feeding the ducks, flying on a plane, swimming in the Caribbean, and playing on playgrounds at many of Meriden's parks. He also gave so much to those who he loved. His life was measured in kisses, in giggles, and in milestones. Now we have found ourselves learning a new way of measuring life. With the creation of our family and community foundation called Noah's Ark of Hope, Inc. we plan on doing just that. Our experience in losing a child and our parenthood is not a unique one - many parents who have lost children have contacted us. We are trying to focus on something positive - something that will give us hope. We look to Meriden's citizens not just to support this project because of our family and our story but because of its importance to all families. It is a unique opportunity to invest in the present and in the future. This project will come to fruition for Meriden's children right now. Everyone will have someone in their lives that could benefit: grandchildren, cousins, nieces, nephews, siblings, etc.

For the past two years, a playground committee of dedicated members has been working hard to get a barrier free playground built in Hubbard Park. We are joining in on the efforts to raise awareness and dollars for this project. Who knows? Children who play on it now may even bring their children here someday. Noah's Ark of Hope, Inc. and our pledge to raise $100,000.00 for this playground is our attempt to pay forward all the support and assistance we continue to receive every day. We will be able to measure Noah's life and its ripples through this playground and other future projects of the Noah's Ark of Hope, Inc. Foundation. And for us, this playground will give us something to put all of our positive energy into - a place where we will be able to celebrate the life of our "little man" every time we see a child smiling within its walls. Is that not how we all strive to have our lives measured? In happiness, in love, and above all else, in Hope.






Bobbie’s Bevy of Beauties
Looking back at what my garden beds looked like when I wrote my last article and what they look like now is truly amazing. One month with very warm weather and rain surely does the trick. The hostas are of gigantic size. Liatris with small yellow square flowers running up and down their stems and the yellow four o’clocks and evening primrose look like huge buttercups. I have two varieties of companulas. One bell shaped in blue and white and the other a very deep purple in clusters. The latter is a favorite among the people who come to see the gardens. One type of perennial salvia and the Rose-of-Campione is also in bloom and the lilies are beginning to open up. I can’t believe the amount of hibiscus I’ll have this year. They have also produced many new plants as has the trumpet lily and black-eyed-Susan. I’m still either giving or throwing away these unwanted plants. There’s just so many of them. Also included in the just so many reproduction list are the annual cleome, balsam and portulaca. Outside of two rose bushes, one red and one a pale yellow pinkish orange, the rest are the pink simplicity. Their first blooming was spectacular. They’ll continue to bloom on and off until fall.

Jimmy’s veggie garden and tubs are all squared away. Has some pole beans, two varieties of cukes, cherry tomatoes and is trying out the Roma this year. They are very bushy with lots of flowers and some have very tiny tomatoes. I’m sure they’ll make a very great sandwich.

And as I do every season, have made many visits to the area nurseries. Am sure I’ll make a couple more. But one thing is missing. Going up Allen Avenue to the Westfort nursery. Besides the beautiful healthy plants, the conversations with the owners Carol, Richard and their knowledgeable employees was most enjoyable. Almost every avid gardener tells me how much she or he misses this nursery. It sure was a big favorite.

My oldest brother Tom and his wife Rita’s 60th wedding anniversary was Thursday, June 19th. The sisters, brothers and spouses were invited to attend 12 p.m. mass at St. Stanislaus Church in Meriden where they would also renew their marriage vows on Sunday, June 22nd. It was a very beautiful ceremony and I did shed a few tears. After church the family went to the youngest son and daughter-in-laws home where a reception was held in their honor. The appetizers, main course dinner and desserts were absolutely scrumptious! The conversations, laughs and memories were also a big part of the day. A great time was held by all.

School has ended and I have to do some bragging concerning my two older granddaughters Izzy-Bella doesn’t begin her 13 year journey till August. Abby who finished 6th grade received a Certificate of Appreciation for Choir, Art Excellence Award, Good Citizenship Award, Lincoln Middle School Spelling Bee Championship, Honor roll for all 4 terms and a Academic Award for straight “A’s” for all 4 terms. Emmy “MeO” who graduated from 8th grade received the Band Award for participating in all three years while at Lincoln, Pamela J. Aldi award for excellence in Math, Connecticut Association of Schools Scholar Leader Award, Honor roll for all 4 terms, and the most prestigious - the Academic Achievement Award for straight “A’s” for ever single term in the 3 years while at Lincoln. We are all so proud of these gals.

And I do have some very special P.S.’s
June 25 – My sister Marilyn and her husband Ed who live in Massachusetts will be married 47 years!
June 28th – My brother in-law Ed’s birthday.
June 29th – Happy Birthday Hubby!
July 5th – Congratulations to our next door neighbor and his fiancée Courtney who lives in Chatham, Ontario, Canada and will marry in her hometown.
July 17th – Happy Birthday to my long haired dachshund LitlBit who will be 2 years old.

Love and best wishes to all.

I think everything has been covered for this month. So until my next article -
Flowercerly yours,
Bobbie G. Vosgien

Photo of Emily Olivia Schmidt receiving one of her awards with Principal Leo Lavallee.

The Central Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra and FateGetting ready for a concert happens on so many levels.There is the administration, the parents, the musicians, our Music Director and Conductor, our venue, our reception and the audience. Everybody who has put on a concert or a recital can tell you how delicately balanced all of these factors must be juggled.Personal schedules, family schedules, venue schedules, product availability, good health and availability all factor into the event.Some things cost money, some can be borrowed, some things can be volunteered, some things will cost lots of money and some things can be free! Decisions have to be made, priorities have to be made.We all like free, but we want everything to go smoothly, so we pay for those things that will make things go more smoothly and we cadge what we can. .What does a Civic Youth Orchestra really need? Musicians and parents willing to schlep them to rehearsals.
Music Director and Conductor- needs vision, music, (which requires money and good taste in music!)Administration- willing to go the extra mile with the wonderful volunteers and be there for questions, keep the concert moving, keep the parent-donated raffles safe (and lo and behold, don’t you know that a father had to go to the store and buy new raffle tickets one hour before they were needed?? Couldn’t find ours. Felt dumb, but the concert and the raffle must go on! Talk about going the extra 31/2 miles! But I did remember the doilies. You can’t raffle doilies.Now, we are going to take our Fourth Year publicity photo. The photographer arrives (bless her heart). The musicians, understandably, are all over the venue, warming up, chatting, staving off nervousness. I call, parents call, everyone else calls, siblings call for the musicians to assemble. Get the instruments! The harp, the double bass, the two celli, the bassoon, and all the rest, relatively portable. We assemble. Parents gather to take their own pictures. I look awful in 99% of them, but oh, well, I vowed to go on a diet so that the double bass can no longer hide behind me in Hide and Seek. Seriously. I suck it in, the musicians smile, the Music Director smiles and all is well, all is bright.Once a concert starts it has its own momentum. I speak. I forget to do the Pledge of Allegiance, and then when I speak again, I suggest that everybody do it individually. The audience laughs, I do it individually after my speech. The rhythm takes over; the musical pieces go very nicely, the first half is over. Raffle tickets fly off the roll! It is a success. Ten minute break is up and the second half is ready to be performed.The second half is in full swing and the reception elves start their carrying, unwrapping, placing, re-placing, fiddling and making the tables look perfect. I have pictures to prove it!The musicians are triumphant. They did a fine job and everyone is happy for them. Parents are happy for other people’s kids, as if they were their own. The musicians are the center of attention, as they should be. Solos are over, duets are over, rough spots have been smoothed over, rushing or lagging doesn’t matter any more.Everything has indeed come together and synchronized. It all worked, together and well. I can only say “THANK YOU”. It seems inadequate, but I think they all know that it takes a Civic Orchestra and a great audience- like, yes, like a village, to do this magic.Thank You to everyone who helped make the Fourth Annual Central Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra Spring Concert so wonderful. I am very proud to be a part of this group and really looking forward to our Fifth Annual Spring Concert. If you or a loved one would like to know more about the CCCYO, please send e-mail to meridenartstrust@yahoo.com. Thanks, Katrina Axelrod.

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Medical Transportation for Meriden Seniors

The City of Meriden Advisory Board on Aging is currently publicizing transportation resources for Meriden senior citizens who are going to medical appointments. Information is being sent to medical offices, churches and other common community organizations. The Board has identified the following medical transportation options for Meriden seniors. You may wish to clip this article to keep for future reference. Please call the number(s) listed for the service you desire.

1. Meriden Senior Citizens Center (237-3338). Transportation for Meriden residents aged 55 and over to medical appointments in Meriden. 24-hour advance notice required. Funded by the City of Meriden, the Agency on Aging of South Central CT and the CT Dept. of Transportation. No fee for the service, contributions accepted.

2. American Red Cross, Wallingford/Meriden branch (265-6721). Transportation to out-of-town (outside Meriden) medical appointments. One week advance notice requested. Partially funded by grants from the Agency on Aging of South Central CT and United Way of Meriden and Wallingford. No fee, contributions accepted.

3. Northeast Transportation Co. (ADA Paratransit Program) (1-800-441-8901). Transportation to medical appointments in Meriden and Wallingford. Riders must complete an application to verify that a disability makes it difficult to use the fixed bus route. Fee charged.

4. American Cancer Society (1-800-227-2345). Volunteer drivers provide transportation for cancer patients to medical appointments. Three business days advance notice is requested.

5. Meriden Transit District (235-6851). Fixed route local bus service in Meriden with connections to Wallingford, Middletown, New Britain and New Haven. Special fare for senior citizens aged 65 and over with Medicare card or Transit ID card.

The Meriden Advisory Board on Aging meets monthly at the Meriden Senior Center, 22 West Main St., Meriden. Please call the Center at 237-0066 for questions about the Board's activities.
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Helping Hands Thrift Store
I would like to remind the people that their “no longer needed” items can and do help others. By donating articles from clothing to furniture at the Helping Hands Thrift Store located at 22 No. Turnpike Road in Wallingford victims of Domestic Violence at the Chrysalis Center have been able to receive any help needed from us which has been anything from clothing, toys, furniture at no cost with proof they have been referred to us. Being our main concern we would like to help get the word out that there is help available as no one should have to live in fear of physical and mental abuse from another person. If someone wants to get out of such a situation a phone call is all that is needed for help.
Donations offered to the store also help the Childhood Dreams Organization and the Meriden Humane Society. The Meriden Humane Society has been given items for different fundraisers they have organized to help with the care of so many homeless, mistreated animals and have a no kill policy for their organization. Right now we are helping them by offering the public hand made beautiful pillows with different pictures of cats, dogs, horses and even Clifford the Big Red Dog at only $3.00 each!

It is that time of the year to clean your basement, attic or buy new furniture so why not donate it if it is in good condition and can help others. Helping Hands Thrift Store offers Free pick up for donations of furniture in good condition or other large quantities of donations by calling the store at (203) 284-0300 Tues.-Sat. 9a.m.-5p.m. and Sundays 10a.m.-3p.m. The public has been great in responding knowing our store supports these organizations and will offer help to the Community when referred to us with PROOF of their need at no cost to the client.

It is a wonderful feeling knowing that you are helping others by donating no longer needed items to help someone else.
Remember at tax time you are allowed to claim donations made even without a tax receipt up to a certain amount!

The above mentioned Organizations and Helping Hands Thrift Store would like to say THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT.

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PLEASE HELP Jake DeMarco

Dear friends,

In 2004, Jake DeMarco graduated from Lyman Hall High School healthy and excited about attending Johnson and Wales University, having been awarded a full scholarship to pursue a career in hospitality management. Jake today is bed-ridden, overwhelmed by disabling pain and chronic vomiting, and facing lifelong paralysis. Jake has overcome challenges throughout his twenty years, but none of this physical magnitude. His grandmother and legal guardian has contacted me to ask for help.

Jake suffers from Chiari Malformation, a birth defect illness whose systems do not present until early adulthood. In simple terms, a herniation of the cerebellum, the bottom part of the brain, descends out of the skull and crowds the spinal cord, putting pressure on both the brain and the spinal cord. It took nearly a year to identify Jake’s disease, and state and federal services are still being negotiated. The only intervention is Chiari Decompression Surgery, which will alleviate Jake’s pain and allow him the ability to become mobile, but there is no cure.

Jake’s problem is that the increasing size of his herniation has made decompression surgery an immediate need, but the cost is prohibitive. Few surgeons in CT have ever done this very specialized surgery, but at the Chiari Institute in Great Neck, New York, which was developed in 2001, they have performed thousands of these surgeries and are recognized world-wide as the best chance any Chiari patient has for a successful outcome. You can find more information at www.conquerchiari.org.
Please help those of us who were touched by the grace and dignity of Jake Demarco during his high school career to help fund the cost of his surgery. There is no cure, but if Jake’s pain can be alleviated and he can regain his mobility, you will have provided Jake some hope from the despair he faces today.

Contributions should be made out to the Jake DeMarco, Chiari Fund, Peoples United Bank, 930 North Colony Road, Wallingford, CT 06492 c/o Heather Abel.

Thank you in advance for any contribution that will get Jake to the Chiari Institute as soon as possible.

Sincerely,
Andrew Candido
STC Coordinator
Jake’s Foodservice teacher at LHHS in 2004


______________________________________________________________________________________ News Brief

If you travel a long Main Street in South Meriden you will see the Patriotic Sprit with American Flags waving in the wind. This South Meriden community project is in it’s 5 year now and has been handled completely by the South Meriden Events Committee who pays for and installs the flags themselves. We are proud of our community and we enjoy celebrating through the year with different events.

The things we are not proud of, are the people who have been stealing the American Flags that we have purchased for display during the summer months. To date in the last several weeks we have lost 5 flags.

We would like everyone who travels along Main Street in South Meriden to enjoy the view but we also need your help by keeping an eye out for those who feel the need to steal other people property.

Anyone having information about the missing flags or might have found any of the missing flags can speak to April at Tom's Place 55 Main Street.

Thanks for the help and enjoy the up coming holiday

Keith Gordon
Chief South Meriden Fire Rescue
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Home Country
Slim Randles

Genius is occasionally driven by desperation, and that’s what happened to Annette down at the Soup ‘R Market.

The phone lines were fuzzy that day, she thinks, because of an electrical storm. That’s the only reason she can think of that she was stuck with 800 pounds of squash. She thought she was ordering 80 pounds, you see, but there was static … oh well….

So the banner went up across the front of the market. It was so thick you had to duck under it to get in the store. “Giant Squash Recipe Contest,” it read.

This was fascinating, because science and mothers have been trying for centuries to make squash edible to normal human beings. Some thought it wasn’t possible, but those folks probably think we didn’t land on the moon, either. In most of us there is this innate belief that someone would someday make squash into an edible vegetable.

Of course, we’ve been wrong before.

To enter Annette’s giant squash recipe contest, you had to first register at the store, and then pick out the kind of squash you want to transform into food. Then you bring the completed dish in on Saturday at 11 a.m., along with the recipe all written out. The entries would be tasted by blindfolded locals whose wives had volunteered them for the task.

By Tuesday the squash began being sold so fast that Annette’s kid had to continually bring more from the back of the store to refill the bins.

Zuccini was a favorite, closely followed by crookneck.

On Saturday, quite a crowd had gathered, because it turned out that many of the local cooks thought their family recipe could turn gourds into a meal. The blindfolded judges were unanimous in picking Carla Martinez’s squash dish, which had enough chile in it to disguise brunch at Lucretia Borgia’s. After the applause, Carla proudly drove home with her prize: one hundred pounds of squash.
We sure have fun around here.
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Hometown Girl Makes It Write
It was my great honor to interview Carrie Borzillo-Vrenna, who grew up in Wallingford and is a well know author who has recently published a new book called, “CHERRY BOMB: The ultimate guide to becoming a better flirt, a tougher chick, a hotter girlfriend, and living life like a rock star” The book is available August 5th and information on purchasing it is listed below. Thanks again to Carrie for taking the time out of her extremely busy schedule to talk to me.

When were you born and what schools in Wallyworld did you attend? When did you graduate?

I was born June 20, 1970 in Milford but lived in Wallingford most of my life. I attended Parker Farms School for Kindergarten and a portion of 1st grade. Then we moved across town and I went to Cook Hill School for the remainder of grade school. Middle school was Moran. High school was Sheehan. I graduated in 1988. College was SCSU in New Haven. I graduated with a BS in journalism in 1992 and moved to Los Angeles the day after my final exam. I had already landed a job in L.A. at the music trade publication Billboard.

Do you still have friends and family that still live here?

Yes! My parents, Ronald and Paula Borzillo, still live in the house I grew up in. My mom works in Wallingford too at Calcagni Associates Realtors. My aunt and uncle, Bill and Marie Borzillo, still live there too, as does my cousin Chris Borzillo who works at the Serenity Salon and Day Spa in town. My sister Tracy Borzillo and her family are in Farmington. The rest of my family lives all over Connecticut, Vermont, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania. I’ve kept in touch with some friends but I’m really looking forward to catching up at our 20th high school reunion in 2008, which I’m definitely coming home for.

I usually come home about once a year, and I have to say, when I first graduated college, I couldn’t wait to move to Los Angeles. But as I grew older, I’ve come to really fall in love with my hometown all over again. It didn’t really hit me how wonderfully New England Wallingford is until I took my husband to “wallyworld” for the first time after my Grandmother’s funeral and showed him around. I took him to the center of town and showed him the Record-Journal where I used to work. I showed him the adorable gazebo and our train station. He thought the train station reminded him of the one in the Harry Potter movies – and that’s a compliment! I showed him the hill on Cook Hill Road that we would sled down on our toboggan when I was a little girl and Twin Ponds where I’d go ice-skating.

My hubby loved it so much that we’ve actually discussed getting a little bed and breakfast somewhere in New England - maybe Vermont – Marlboro was like my second hometown because I spent a lot of time there with my grandparents.

And, in doing so, it really dawned on me what a charming town Wallingford is and I really feel fortunate for growing up there. I know it sounds cliché, but my roots and upbringing really gave me a solid foundation for life. I couldn’t imagine growing up in a big city like LA. I think I’d succumb to the dark side!

Can you help me with something? I lost touch with my best friend from high school and would love to catch up with her. Her name is Dina McDaniel. She lived in Wallingford and went to Sheehan too. I think her mother still lives here.


What inspired you to write?

I started out a bit shy, so it was always easier to write down what I was thinking or feeling instead of having to say it aloud. So, I’ve had a journal since I was in first grade. (I still have the journal. One entry said: “I love Donny Osmond! I’m joining his fan club.” Yeah, I wasn’t big on deep thoughts then!) As I got older, English was always the class I did best in. And, I was too shy to give oral reports in class, so I would always try to get the teacher to let me just write a longer report to make up for it. Likewise, when I’d get in trouble with my parents, I would write them these long letters explaining why I shouldn’t be grounded or whatever the situation was. Meanwhile, I’ve been a music fan since age 5 – my parents turned me onto bands like the Beatles and the Rolling Stones at an early age. So when it came time to deciding what I wanted to go to college for, I simply put two and two together – music plus writing equals music journalist. And, that was that. I consider myself more of a journalist than a writer. I’m not that writer-type of person. I’m good at interviewing people and doing research and putting together cool and interesting things to share with people. I’ve always loved reporting more than writing so everything I do comes from that base. Journalism class was more exciting for me than creative writing. Yet, I still find journalism a creative outlet. Go figure!

How did you get into the music scene and who do you know?

It started in Wallingford, really. I was that ‘rock chick’ all through school and life. I was the girl who knew about the cool (some, not so cool) bands before my friends. My sister Tracy Borzillo turned me onto music too when I was little. I remember stealing her records by Heart and Iron Maiden. So, by the time I started dating around age 14-15, it was the rocker boys I was into. My second boyfriend when I was 15 was in a local metal band called Forgotten Realm (this was 1985-86).

And, then at age 17 while a senior at Sheehan, I started writing about music for a few New Haven fanzines called Tunes N’ Times and Hip and shortly after for a Boston music ‘zine called The Beat. Right after that, I started college and did some journalism internships, worked for The Record-Journal, and continued freelancing for music magazines. I worked out a way to not only get paid for my articles by the magazines, but also get college credit for the work too. My first article in a national magazine was on the Black Crowes for Hit Parader magazine when I was 19, a freshmen or sophomore in college. All of that put me in the music scene locally and somewhat in NY, where my internships were.

I made great connections through those internships and my freelance writing. By the time I wanted to move to L.A. and work at a big magazine, I already had a decent resume going and tons of clips so I was able to really hit the ground running when I moved to LA for that job at Billboard in 1992.

Relationship Advice - that's a far stretch from the music scene - how did that come about?

Hah! Good question!!! And, shockingly, there is a music tie-in here. It’s all about connections. You meet a lot of people in the music or entertainment industry when you work at a music magazine because you’re constantly going to concerts, parties, awards shows, press conferences, industry events, conventions and stuff like that. Through work and through mutual friends, I met an editor named Dee McLaughlin who was helping Gene Simmons of Kiss start up his magazine called Gene Simmons Tongue [sic. that is the proper title of the magazine. no apostrophe]. It was a Maxim-type magazine for men who like rock music. So, Dee just randomly thought of me to be their “Dr. Love” sex and relationship advice columnist. I never asked why, because, well, it seemed like a perfect fit to me. I mean, I’ve always had successful relationships with men and was married to a musician and I write. So, she just put two and two together and figured I’d be a good columnist for her.

The key thing to giving out advice is that you need to be successful at what you’re giving advice on. I have a great marriage and sex life so since that’s successful, why not share some helpful advice with others? I always thought Carrie Bradshaw on “Sex and the City” was such a flawed character and not just for the obvious reasons. But, why the hell is someone who is so unlucky in love giving advice to others on relationships? Though I loved the show, that just made no sense to me.

In addition to being an advice columnist for Gene Simmons Tongue, I also had begun writing about fashion and relationships of celebrities for magazines such as Us Weekly, Teen People and People. So, I picked up a lot of fashion, style, beauty, and design tid-bits as a journalist through that as well.

And, then I pick up a lot in my travels and I take classes for fun often and love to host parties at my house and have dinner parties or help style my friends. I’ve even had friends pay me to be their personal shopper.

It’s a combination of my journalistic and life experiences that made Simon & Schuster understand that I am someone who can dish out advice on a wide range of topics with some sense of authority.

And, I’ve done everything in the book --- just about. For instance, I spend a lot of time backstage and on a tour bus with my husband so I’ve lived those tips first hand. I had credit card debt in my early twenties, but I’ve been debt-free and a homeowner 10 years now, so my advice on how to get out of debt is advice I used myself and it worked. And, so on.

For the stuff I’m not an expert at, I’ve brought in an expert to talk about it in my book. For instance, I have the hairstylist for “American Idol” giving tips on how to do a cool up-do and I have Kat Von D. from “LA Ink” talking about what to consider before getting your first tattoo. I even got the woman who waxes such celebs in L.A. as Pamela Anderson and Sandra Bullock to talk about bikini waxing!

What do you like most about what you do?

It’s fun and sometimes you get to actually help or inspire someone, while being inspired yourself. It’s creative and rewarding and fulfilling and I could really go on and on. And, the perks don’t suck either.

How long did it take for you to find your calling and do you have any words of advice for all of our readers and writers?

I knew what I wanted to do after my first article was published in Tunes N’ Times when I was 17 years old. Writers love seeing their name in print, right? I consider myself lucky because it takes most people a long time to find what makes them happy. My advice is that when you find something you love, you need to work it 24/7. You need to eat, live, breathe, and sleep it. Read everything you can on the subject. Work for free to get experience. Do internships. Take classes on it. Go see speakers on it. Google it. TiVo it. Whatever it is, there are tons of opportunities out there to immerse yourself in that “thing” that you love. You just need to be active in seeking it out. Learn how to schmooze and make connections. I landed almost every job by word of mouth because I was always out there working it, even when I was in a job I liked. I was always making new connections and friends with people who have similar interests. Schmoozing is only bad when it’s not sincere, but my love for what I do and the people in the industry I do it with has always been truly sincere.

One last thing -- Sometimes you need to be a little aggressive and obnoxious to get noticed, so don’t be afraid to make a fool of yourself in doing so. I swear, I got my first job just because I went after it aggressively – I FedExed my resume and clips overnight instead of sending it via the mail. I called that day to make sure they got it. I told them I was perfect for the job and just had to come in for an interview. The second I got home from that interview, I emailed the editor with a follow up. And, I think I got the job partly just so I would shut up! Well, I was qualified for the job but so where several other people and some of them might have been better writers than me. But it’s not always being the best technically at what you do. It was my vivacious personality and the fact that I was a real ‘go –getter’ that made me the right person over the other equally qualified candidates. Decent skills are only one part of it.

Tell us about the book:
"CHERRY BOMB: The ultimate guide to becoming a better flirt, a tougher chick, a hotter girlfriend, and living life like a rock star” is a lifestyle guide for the girl who dares to be different. It is essentially the rock chick’s guide to life. But, by rock chick, I really just mean chicks who rock -- Women who dare to be different. Women with an edge. Women who don’t want to look like Paris Freakin’ Hilton or the Girl Next Door. Women who are risk-takers and are bold and confident. Women like Gwen Stefani, Karen O of the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Joan Jett, Joss Stone, Dita Von Teese, Frida Kahlo, Bjork, Gina Gershon, and others.

It’s a fun reference guide with a lot of advice, tips, how-to demonstrations, and inspirational stuff on, well, everything I had time to write up in just four months. It has flirting, dating and sex tips. It has style, fashion and beauty tips. It has tips on how to land a cool job and how to set goals and get out of the red. But, my favorite entries are the more rock lifestyle entries, such as how to prepare and serve Absinthe, how to sneak backstage at a concert, how to behave on a tour bus, and how to hit on a celebrity.

I’ll have some rock chicks, celebs and cool experts chiming in too, but I can’t reveal then yet. I’ll update you as soon as I can, though.

Where can folks buy it?

You can actually pre-order it now on amazon.com. Here is the link: www.amazon.com/Cherry-Bomb-Ultimate-Becoming-Girlfriend/dp/141696116X/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1195874025&sr=1-3

But you won’t get it until Aug. 5, 2008, which is when it’ll hit stores. It should be in all major stores like Barnes & Noble and R.J. Julia Booksellers.

Is there any way you people can contact you with questions?

Absolutely. They can email me at www.myspace.com/carrieborzillovrenna. And, yes, I do reply to all emails.

Any last words to share with the folks back home?

Wallingford still –and will always – holds a special place in my heart. When people ask me where I’m from, I always say Connecticut even though I’ve lived in Los Angeles since 1992. The area of L.A. I live in (Eagle Rock) reminds me of a small New England town so I feel close to home every day.

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Just a Little Guy

By Carol Sinon

He was just a little guy when he came into our hearts and home. Gray and white with beautiful green eyes and both a pink nose and toes. He was very handsome and was a people cat. He loved children.

Gonzo was my official greeter. The day my husband and I took him to the Vet for the first time…he weighed only five pounds.

Later on, I asked the Vet if there was anything that could help him. There was nothing that could be done. Gonzo was twenty years old.

We all loved Gonzo very much and I will miss him terribly.

If there is a kitty heaven then he is looking at us now.

Gonzo, this is my tribute to you!
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My Trip to Paris
Abigail Schmidt Age 12 Grade 6
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I was lucky enough to experience a vacation like no other. The destinations? Paris, France and Calvi, Corsica. It was here where I visited my uncle in his apartment near the Eiffel Tower, covered with African antiquities and his 10 purebred cats. That unto itself was a bit unusual, but after seeing the Notre Dame Cathedral, the Louvre museum (I happened to see the Mona Lisa while I was there), the Picasso museum and most importantly, the Eiffel Tower, it seemed pretty average. As they all say, there are many eccentric shops and cafes in Paris, some of which we visited and ate at. Gardens were scattered around the city along with parks and fountains. Exotic pets were sold some of the days we were there, such as chipmunks and turkeys.

Wednesday of our first week brought airplanes and handsome flight attendants. When we landed in Corsica, I could scarcely believe the beautiful scenery and the towering mountains. And the beaches! They were so beautiful, with powdery white sand and crystal clear waters. Rock bridges protruded out into the sea, urchins clinging to the lower rocks of the bridges. A large fortress, the Citadelle, stood out next to the seemingly-endless horizon. The port had scattered shops, and cafes directly on the beach (particularly one little creperie) kept us full, and every day I enjoyed something different. People played rugby and soccer out of the beach, and everyone was courteous. Algajola, another city off the coast, supplied tide-pools and large waves, which was perfection for an excitable girl like me. Back near his apartment, a hidden cove was like a haven inside this heaven, wildlife so abundant and the water crystal-clear and aquamarine. It was a true shame when we had to leave Corsica and the day after, France, but the sound of my friends' voices and sleeping in my own bed was home-sweet home after such a wondrous vacation.


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True Treasure
Chapter one

Elizabeth walked towards her husband, Jonathan after the short funeral. She knew his grief was as deep as hers. She slowly went into his arms and they both cried together. They will never go to their two year old son, Jonathan Jr. again. He was gone from their lives but not from their hearts.
Soon they walked arm in arm back to their wagon. This is what the trail brought them– the death of their son.

Jonathan looked at the sky and sighed. Others had come ill on the trail and died, but none had ever been so close to their hearts as their dear son. How would they ever make it? Leaving the new grave on the trail unmarked. The wagon master had advised them not to mark the grave because of raiders.. Sometimes the Indians raided graves.

At the wagon, Elizabeth started a stew for their dinner, that she knew neither of them would really eat, but their friend, Jake, who drove their second wagon, would need to eat. It was something for her to do. She also made some biscuits. When it was ready, Jake arrived. Elizabeth got him his plate and placed three biscuits on it and handed it to him. He had sorrow in his eyes when he looked at her, but he didn’t say anything because he didn’t know what to say. He knew his friends were grieving. He nodded his thank you when she handed him his plate. Elizabeth tried to smile but it was a weak one. He sat down by the wagon and started eating.

She knew Jonathan wouldn’t want to eat but she fixed him and plate and took it to him. She made one for herself as well and headed to where Jonathan was sitting on the other side of the wagon. He was chewing on a piece of grass when she walked up to him. She handed him his plate but he pushed it away.
"Honey, you need your strength to drive this wagon." she said softly.
"I know but I just can’t eat right now."
"Honey, I don’t feel like eating either, but I am going to push myself to eat just a little and you should as well."
"I know........okay, I’ll try to eat a little," as he took the plate from her. She sat down beside him and took a few bites of the stew and Jonathan did as well.

Since it was Sunday, they weren’t traveling that day. It was a day of rest. Elizabeth spent most of the afternoon at the grave. That’s where Jonathan found her just after dark.
"Come, Beth, we need to get some sleep so we can move on tomorrow." he said in a low voice.
"I don’t want to leave him," she cried softly.
"I know, Honey, but we have to." She went into his arms and cried. He held her tenderly.
"I know, Hon, It won’t be easy for me to leave him either but we can’t stay here. It’s too dangerous." She cried some more. He held her until her tears were spent and led her back to the wagon and to bed. Neither one of them slept very well but they did get a little rest. Elizabeth dreamt about her son running towards her but she could not get to him. The closer they got, the further away they got. She tossed and turned and woke Jonathan up several. She was calling for Jonathan when he woke her at dawn.
"It’s time to get up, Beth." he said gently. "I’ll go start the fire for breakfast and go check the horses."
"Okay, I’ll be up shortly," answered Elizabeth. Jonathan got dressed and kissed his wife before he left.
Jonathan met Jake when he climbed out of the wagon. Jonathan reached for some wood to start the fire and Jake got the kindling. Soon the fire was going. Jonathan got the coffee pot and started the coffee. Then they went to take care of the horses. Jake didn’t say much as usual, just small talk.
"How is Mrs. Tanner doing? Jake asked.
"Not well, I’m afraid. It’s going to be hard for her when we leave this morning."
"I’m sorry for your loss. Your son meant a lot to me too. I grieve with you. I loved him like my own son."
"Thanks, Jake and I know he meant a lot to you and he liked you as well." answered Jonathan. After feeding the horses, they headed back to the wagon. Elizabeth was up preparing breakfast that she wasn’t looking forward to eating, but she had to cook for the men. Jonathan poured him and Jake coffee. Elizabeth was sipping hers while the salt pork was frying in the pan. Jonathan reached over and kissed her. Elizabeth pushed him away.
"We’re in public, Jonathan," she replied.
"What? I can’t kiss my wife in public?" he asked. "Where’s the public anyway?" She nodded toward Jake. He smiled at her.
"Well, I don’t think Jake minds if I kiss my wife in front of him, do you, Jake?"
"I don’t mind at all," he answered. Jonathan reached over and put his hands on her shoulders and kissed her again. She blushed.


George's Groundhog Grudge
by George Arndt

I used to plant veggies up on the hill in back of my house for as long as I can remember with no thought of any herbivorous intruders...then came the day of the groundhog. One day I noticed a couple of partially eaten green tomatoes on the ground. Hmm, aha...someone, or something, has been eating my unmatured produce. So I fenced the garden in with chicken wire. But some sneaky critter had laboriously dug a tunnel underneath my fence, and feasted once again on what was left of my fledgling crops.

Uttering to no person, nor beast...I hesitantly implored,

"What is that odd-looking hole, just up from my garden, doing there, and what does it imply?" As I stood there pondering, a groundhog stuck its head out from that abysmal abode of his. Well I'll fix him...smart aleck. I removed the chicken wire, dug a trench a foot deep around the perimeter of my garden plot and reinstalled the fencing a foot below ground level.

Would you believe?...that taunting, ungainly, and ominous furry marauder, managed to dig beneath my well-thought-up attempt to bar it from getting in. Well, that was about 10 or 12 years ago. I decided this past Memorial Day Weekend to give it another try...hopefully there will be no more hassles from Punxsutawney Phil.


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Dear Housewives - Central Connecticut’s Know It All Gals
Dear Readers,

Do you have a question regarding family life, budgeting, customer service issues, DVD or book reviews, or home organization? We will give you our candid advise from a family perspective. Contact The Peoples Press by e-mail or phone with your confidential question and we will answer it in the next issue.

Let us all make this summer a summer filled with adventure.

June and Flora


Dear Housewives,

I am a single Mother who just recently lost a job that paid $45,000/year. The only job I can find pays only $10.00 an hour. How can I feed the kids and pay the mortgage?

- Single Mom in Wallingford

FLORA: Dear Mom, first I want to say that I am sorry that you are in a situation like this. Losing a job especially when you have children, is very stressful. Please remember to not loose sight of a good outcome; there is hope.

Here are some things you can consider:

-get a roommate to share expenses while you work and learn some skills to get a better paying job.

- I am not sure what type of field you are in but try to develop some contacts and relationships to help you land a job in your field of work.

-call your mortgage company and anyone you owe money to. Explain your temporary situation to them and work something out.

-cut out ALL extras. Yes, the cable, your cell or land telephone line, if you go out to eat (even for a coffee) stop all of that.

-Shop at discount grocers. Prepare meals that are low cost and healthy. Prepared foods can be a waste of money. Use your discretion in the stores. And please don't let the marketing executives get control of your mind and tell you what you need to buy. Keep your power and you will keep some of your money too.Your children can have fun for FREE. You do not need to buy buy buy.

-visit Dave Ramsey's website. Read his books. www.daveramsey.com

This is a good example of how having an emergency fund is so important for families. Have enough to cover 3-6 months of living expenses. As Dave Ramsey (daveramsey.com) says about emergencies: It will rain; you need an umbrella. This would mean liquid/easy access funds.

JUNE: I am also sorry for your situation. It must be very scary to wonder how to take care of your children. I agree with all that Flora has said except taking in a roommate. That can often be a nightmare situation and it is one thing to fight to get someone out of your home when you are single but it can be dangerous with kids in the house. I see that only making your life more stressful and more confusing for your kids. You should never bring strangers into your kids life. You can also read Suze Ormon's books. She went from rags to riches in a situation like yours.

Dear Housewives,

What can I do to entertain the kids when I want them outside but can't afford to drive anywhere? Hoping for Help in Meriden.

JUNE: Hmmm, uhhh, put them outside. Can't see the correlation between wanting your kids outside and driving them somewhere. When I was a kid I went outside in the morning, went home for lunch and dinner for the night. I was always outside, my mom didn't drive me anywhere and my dad was at work. Don't feel you have to go anywhere, tell them to go outside and find an imagination.

FLORA: I wish we knew the ages of your children. Explore your neighborhood. Teach them marbles, jump rope, jacks. Identify leaves, flowers, birds. Use the sprinkler. Let them play. They will finds games to play on their own. Kids are naturally curious and creative. Let them be kids, stand back and watch them have a wonderful summer.

CHIT-CHAT

June, my children, along with all of Meriden's school kids are participating in the Governor's Summer Reading Challenge. They have to read 30 books and respond to 5 questions on 5 of the books. I think it is fantastic. I have a few books that are accumulating in my 'need to read' pile. So, I too will challenge myself to read the group this summer.

The Secret Life of Bees
Wicked
Spontaneous Healing
A Tree Grows in Brooklyn
The Memory Keepers Daughter
Suite Française
Waiting for Snow in Havana

For those that can knock out a book in a day or two; more power to ya. I am a slow reader but I can master this. My Bible is coming along too. I am on 1Chronicles, Romans, somewhere in the Psalms and Proverbs. Reading it the way Our Daily Bread www.rbc.org is doing the bible in a year this year is great.
Do you have any summer book reading plans?

JUNE: Flora, I read Wicked and I think I had assessed it in this column. I just finished sTori Telling, which was Tori Spelling's book about her life as the daughter of one of the most successful television producers of our time. A good, quick, light read. I will look into your suggestions. Have a great July.



Barbara's Bountiful Bouquet

What a difference a month makes, hey? Today is June 23rd, and my garden is coming along well at the Wallingford Community Garden. I did plant the basil too soon, on May 25th, as we still had several cold nights after that, and the basil did not make it. So I replanted it. Even the second planting is not looking all that healthy, kind of yellow instead of green, so I fertilized it yesterday, along with everything else in the garden. I planted two long rows of corn (seeds, the only way to go), and they are close to knee-high and are so far not getting eaten by bugs or critters. The marigolds are looking very sad at the moment. We definitely need more sun than we have been getting lately. I even have mushrooms growing because it is too darn damp. I plucked all of those out that I found, but it is not a good sign.
My sunflowers I planted from seed are doing well. Sometimes those can be eaten up immediately, but thus far they are surviving, knock on soil. I planted about 10 cucumber seeds in each of six hills, and I have lost a lot of them. I'll be lucky if four survive in most of the hills, and one only has two. Cucumbers are always a touch-and-go vegetable. Last year I had a bumper crop, but you never know from one year to the next what will happen. If the bugs don't get to them, something else will. I also bought two stargazer lily bulbs and planted those, and they are slowly growing.
I have always had cleomes reseed themselves, but this year I did not see a one until a few days ago. Lo, and behold, they reseeded in various parts of the garden, but not where they were last year. They are very tiny at the moment, and I will try to transplant them when they get a little stronger because they are too close to other plants, like the cucumbers. My tomatoes hardly look like they are making any progress, but I do have some small green tomatoes on a few plants, so maybe I'll have ripe tomatoes sometime in July. Yum. Last year we didn't have tomatoes until well into August, which is pretty late. Does anyone need garlic? I have probably 30 or more ready to be harvested. Let me know if you want some fresh garlic. There was a little space where my sunflowers did not pop up, so I planted some Black-Eyed Susan seeds, and they are now emerging.
Every year I have a battle with weeds from the neighboring plots. There are three sides of my garden that border other gardeners' plots, and I am always blessed with people who do not weed their borders. So yesterday I hauled a motherlode of hay to my garden and deposited it on all three sides, after weeding, of course, in hopes of keeping the weeds from invading my garden and depleting needed nutrients from my plants. The fourth side of my garden faces the path, and I always keep that weeded and looking nice. Oh, and the artichoke plants are doing great! I think I may have planted them a little too close to each other, but time will tell. They looked so sick a month ago, I didn't think they were going to survive, but they are quite robust now.
A friend of mine had extra plants she had no room for in her garden, so two weeks ago she gave me some cucumbers, yellow squash, and zucchini. So I shoveled, hoed, and raked a section next to the side of the house where I had planted a few things last summer, and put the vegetables into the ground. (I wish I could come up with another word besides planted.) I have a trellis that I placed behind the cukes, and hope to be able to train them up the trellis so they won't wander out into the lawn. I had a few extra marigolds, so I dug a spot for them in the ground next to the vegetables. And then I had a large packet of seeds in a planting mix that are supposed to attract hummingbirds and butterflies, so I threw those into some empty spaces as well, and they are already emerging. So that's it for this edition. Whew, that was kind of long.
Happy 4th of July to all! Thank you, God, for the United States of America!Barbara Sherburnebarndt49@yahoo.com
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The Best of Fishing
By: Fran Lappert

I receive a call from my good friend Peter Devit that he and his friend George Soeters were planning another trip fishing on Lake Ontario. It was to be planned for the middle of July and he asked me if I would like to join them for two full days of fishing. At that time pf my life Ellie was visiting our daughter Linda and her family in North Carolina. I told Peter I would like to join them. We met at his home to make a list of what food we needed for the two days, and I said, I would buy the groceries. Pete had already had a weekend reservation with Jim Wells Charter Boat out of Port Bay. He had already made several trips with Jim that was very successful. We left Peter’s house at 12noon, as it was a six-hour drive to the lake. We made one stop at a rest station and had an ice cream and to stretch our legs. We arrived at Jim’s cabin around 6p.m. After unloading all our groceries into the cabin, we went to a nice restaurant on the lake for supper and for me to buy my license. Jim said he would like to be on the lake by 6a.m. so we hit the hay around 9p.m. We all got up around five to have a quick breakfast and to make sandwiches for our lunch as we were not going to stop fishing for the next eight hours. When Jim arrived at the location we were going to troll, he just finished setting out the fourth down rigger when we got a strike on one of them. Pete was the closest to the rod and picked it up and reared back to set the hook. After fighting the fish to the boat Jim netted it. It was a ten-pound Lake Trout. It was a nice start.

Jim now had all six rigs set out at different levels from fifty to one hundred feet deep. After trolling for an hour another rod got a strike and it was another nice Lake Trout. We cough most of them in ninety feet of water. Then we had a dry spell for quite awhile until Jim saw a huge school of baitfish on his fish finder and told us to watch the rods as he also saw some large fish following them. First one rod popped and Pete was closest and took it. A minute later a third rod popped and I grabbed it. We were now battling three King Salmon. Jim quickly reeled up the remaining lines to get them out of the way. First Pete’s line went slack another fish off. George was luckier, he was able to bring his fish to the boat and Jim netted it. It weighed close to twenty-four pounds.

Jim got the rigs down again and returned to the same area again. The next strike, it was my turn on the rod and it soon popped. I grabbed it and Jim said to strike hard so the fish could not throw the spoon. The fish pulled another fifty feet of line off the reel and finally surfaced way in back of the boat. Jim said I had a good Salmon this time. I fought this fish for almost thirty minutes before I finally got him close to the boat. It was a huge King Salmon. Jim got out his scale and weighed it. It tipped the scale at thirty-five lbs. It was the largest fresh water fish I ever caught. It turned out to be the largest King caught from his boat that summer.


Horoscopes for July
Week 1
ARIES - Mar 21/Apr 20
Aries, money is the root of all evil for you this week. You may let greed get the better of you. Thursday is a good day for turning things around.
TAURUS - Apr 21/May 21
Think long and hard on things before you make a big decision, Taurus. Examine all sides and you just may find that you're doing it all for the wrong reasons.
GEMINI - May 22/Jun 21
Sometimes there's no place like home to provide that quiet retreat that you crave, Gemini. But since staying home all the time is not an option, you have to learn how to chill out elsewhere.
CANCER - Jun 22/Jul 22
This is a special time for you, Cancer. The stars are aligning in just the right way to bring you financial success and a wealth of friendship as well.
LEO - Jul 23/Aug 23
Leo, it's time to get off the express train to nowhere and figure out what you want to do with your life for the next few months. Get a plan and put it in action.
VIRGO - Aug 24/Sept 22
Normally you're the first to join in with anything, Virgo. But this week you're certainly not the life of the party. Banish this serious case of the grumpies.
LIBRA - Sept 23/Oct 23
It's remarkable what you can accomplish when you put your mind to things, Libra. This week is full of surprises and some will trickle over into next week as well.
SCORPIO - Oct 24/Nov 22
Scorpio, being helpful and being bossy are two different things. But you're having trouble telling the difference between them. Rethink your approach.
SAGITTARIUS - Nov 23/Dec 21
Sagittarius, constantly checking up on a coworker is not going to make him or her move any faster. In fact, it could incite this person to slow down progress even further.
CAPRICORN - Dec 22/Jan 20
Hand over the leadership reigns to another person, Capricorn. You're entitled to a well-deserved break this week. It's okay to watch things from the sidelines.
AQUARIUS - Jan 21/Feb 18
Stop worrying about your finances, Aquarius. Your investments, bank accounts and other financial ventures are all picture-perfect. Splurge on something you want.
PISCES - Feb 19/Mar 20
Sharp words and barbs may win the fight in the immediate future, Pisces, but they can also have long-term effects.
FAMOUS BIRTHDAYS
JULY 6
George W. Bush, U.S. President (62)
JULY 7
Ringo Starr, Drummer (68)
JULY 8
Kevin Bacon, Actor (50)
JULY 9
Fred Savage, Actor (32)
JULY 10
Arlo Guthrie, Singer (61)
JULY 11
Lisa Rinna, Actress (45)
JULY 12
Richard Simmons, Fitness Guru

Week 2
ARIES - Mar 21/Apr 20
Aries, you need to be a team player when it comes to your job. Do your work as best as you can, but let it be known that you also stand by your coworkers.
TAURUS - Apr 21/May 21
Don't take anything too personally in the next couple of days, Taurus. It is not worth the headache it could cause. Focus your energy on work projects that need attention.
GEMINI - May 22/Jun 21
Sometimes the most unselfish act involves letting others do things for you, Gemini. Stand back and let someone else enjoy the spotlight and dote on you.
CANCER - Jun 22/Jul 22
Cancer, you can fix whatever is broken if you are prepared to put in a little hard work. Consider saving time by scaling back your goal, or asking others for help.
LEO - Jul 23/Aug 23
Something you've long anticipated finally happens this week, Leo. Recognize the difference between a real commitment and a shallow promise made in haste.
VIRGO - Aug 24/Sept 22
If you point out what people are doing right at work rather than how they are messing up, the team will become more efficient, Virgo. You will benefit from this situation.
LIBRA - Sept 23/Oct 23
Libra, the world becomes an easy place in which to live this week. Throw aside your inhibitions and bask in your good fortune. Also enjoy some moments of indulgence.
SCORPIO - Oct 24/Nov 22
Believe it or not, Scorpio, you have a choice in the way you react to the attitude and actions of someone else. Don't let others' sour moods ruin your day or your week.
SAGITTARIUS - Nov 23/Dec 21
Someone has been singing your praises, Sagittarius - unbeknownst to you. This person is letting others know how well you've done your job and how you're a real asset.
CAPRICORN - Dec 22/Jan 20
Capricorn, ease up on the people around you. You are coming across as too harsh with the things you simply cannot tolerate. Tone down the drama and be more supportive.
AQUARIUS - Jan 21/Feb 18
Aquarius, right now you are in a good position to make a connection with someone who had previously been an adversary. Extend a hand and put aside your differences.
PISCES - Feb 19/Mar 20
If you don't gather up all of your facts, Pisces, someone could end up looking like a fool on Tuesday. That person could be you.
FAMOUS BIRTHDAYS
JULY 13
Harrison Ford, Actor (66)
JULY 14
Harry Dean Stanton, Actor (82)
JULY 15
Forest Whitaker, Actor (47)
JULY 16
Will Ferrell, Actor (41)
JULY 17
David Hasselhoff, Actor (56)
JULY 18
Vin Diesel, Actor (41)
JULY 19
Jared Padalecki, Actor (26)

Week 3
ARIES - Mar 21/Apr 20
The hot weather has put you in a mood, Aries. You may want to spend some time at home until you're in better spirits. Think about hanging out with friends as well.
TAURUS - Apr 21/May 21
Taurus, financial concerns leave you feeling nervous this week. It's better to pinch some pennies for a while until you get back on course. Capricorn lends a hand.
GEMINI - May 22/Jun 21
Gemini, a special friend from your past comes back for a visit. It could lead to interesting things. Keep your agenda open for Wednesday when love is in your stars.
CANCER - Jun 22/Jul 22
Cancer, keep your patience with a friend on Tuesday. This person is just feeling a little stir-crazy and really doesn't mean the things he or she is saying.
LEO - Jul 23/Aug 23
Family squabbles can get out of hand unless you keep the peace, Leo. Be the bigger person, maintain order and lead by a compassionate example.
VIRGO - Aug 24/Sept 22
Virgo, stop doing so much for others and pamper yourself a little bit this week. Go to a spa, take a vacation, or just stay home from work for a day.
LIBRA - Sept 23/Oct 23
Libra, you've been feeling very anxious and it's partially because you are experiencing low self-esteem. You have to exert more confidence in all that you do.
SCORPIO - Oct 24/Nov 22
Scorpio, a close friend really needs your help on Thursday. Make sure your schedule is open so that you can lend a hand. Put work on hold for some quality time with your mate.
SAGITTARIUS - Nov 23/Dec 21
Have you been spending too much time at work, Sagittarius? It could be because you are avoiding a situation at home. Face your problems and be honest with yourself.
CAPRICORN - Dec 22/Jan 20
It may be time to consider a career change, Capricorn. Think about what interests you the most rather than just focusing in on the financial factor.
AQUARIUS - Jan 21/Feb 18
Your confidence continues to rise, Aquarius. It could be because of good news you've been receiving at work. Consult with Leo for advice on improving your financial future.
PISCES - Feb 19/Mar 20
Pisces, be the life of the party on Friday. You just may hook up with a winning romance. Look to Scorpio for some companionship.
FAMOUS BIRTHDAYS
JULY 20
Gisele Bündchen, Model (28)
JULY 21
Josh Hartnett, Actor (30)
JULY 22
Willem Dafoe, Actor (53)
JULY 23
Michelle Williams, Singer (28)
JULY 24
Jennifer Lopez, Singer (39)
JULY 25
Matt LeBlanc, Actor (41)
JULY 26
Sandra Bullock, Actress (44)

Week 4
ARIES - Mar 21/Apr 20
Aries, if you're not a fan of the summer weather, you may want to make a trip to a cooler locale. Plan a romantic rendezvous with your sweetie as a chance to escape.
TAURUS - Apr 21/May 21
The beginning of the year had some bumps along the way, but the second half will give you another chance to reassess your goals for a greater feeling of purpose and security.
GEMINI - May 22/Jun 21
Gemini, if you've been in a festive mood, spread your cheer to others who could benefit from a friendly smile. Do some volunteer work or help those in need.
CANCER - Jun 22/Jul 22
Feeling academic, Cancer? It could be the right time to sign up for school to continue a degree. Make the most of the slow economy to expand your education.
LEO - Jul 23/Aug 23
You've been in a slump, Leo, which is usually not your typical behavior. Get rearing to go with a new hobby to jump-start your interest. Start a club or join a class.
VIRGO - Aug 24/Sept 22
Virgo, if you've been speeding through your life, it could be time to step on the brakes. Take a few moments to enjoy the scenery. A beachside resort could be the place.
LIBRA - Sept 23/Oct 23
Have you been thinking of a home remodeling project, Libra? This is just the time to start one. The warm weather will give you plenty of days to throw open the window.
SCORPIO - Oct 24/Nov 22
Scorpio, take a short vacation to refresh and recharge before you're needed back at work. Since it's serenity you seek, you might want to fly solo to optimize peaceful moments.
SAGITTARIUS - Nov 23/Dec 21
Sagittarius, it seems that the new project you hoped to start is not going to work out. The finances are just not there at the moment. Bide your time - you may be surprised in a few months.
CAPRICORN - Dec 22/Jan 20
It's time to shed those pounds you've been meaning to lose for a while, Capricorn. Too many rich foods have left you feeling soft in the middle.
AQUARIUS - Jan 21/Feb 18
Have you been experiencing cabin fever, Aquarius? There's no reason to when the weather is so nice. Plan events around being outdoors and you'll soon recharge.
PISCES - Feb 19/Mar 20
You're normally a very confident and positive person, Pisces. But lately you're a skeptic. Find out what's bugging you.
FAMOUS BIRTHDAYS
JULY 27
Alex Rodriguez, Athlete (33)
JULY 28
Sally Struthers, Actress (60)
JULY 29
Martina McBride, Singer (42)
JULY 30
Hilary Swank, Actress (34)
JULY 31
Dean Cain, Actor (42)
AUGUST 1
Tempestt Bledsoe, Actress (35)
AUGUST 2
Jeremy Castle, Singer (34)



Ernie's Garden Adventure's 2008………The Recession Fighter Garden

Gas, food, utilities, just about everything; what do all of these things have in common – well, if you haven't been living in a cave you would know that they all cost more this year than last. However "experts" say this is not a recession – I wonder what field these "experts" are experts in, hmmm?

Rapidly rising energy costs – have skyrocketed the price of, well, as I stated, almost everything – gasoline for the car, heating oil, food, both processed and fresh due to transportation costs, almost every day to day necessity. People are cutting back on unnecessary trips in the car, shortening or even canceling vacations and trying to be more self sufficient in daily life. I've heard of a few families who are installing pools as a hedge on outside family activity expenses.

In my case, for many years, I've had a vegetable garden, well; it usually works out to be pretty much of a tomato garden simply because they seem to grow no matter what and are so versatile, everyone I know seems to like them. This year, I thought I'd be a bit more assertive and try and grow some other types of veggies that my family would enjoy – so I chose green beans, beets, carrots, lettuce and cucumbers; plus the obligatory tomatoes along with some basil and dill. Stuff we'd usually buy at the store or farm market stands – just thought perhaps an attempt at saving would be in vogue. Well, every year I plant a garden one of my major crops are weeds – like anything else, at the beginning of the season, like a lot of others, I'm pretty gung-ho on keeping the garden watered, weeded etc. and as the season wears on, the enthusiasm is a bit more relaxed. Last year I did purchase some weed barrier, it worked to a point, yet I still had a goodly amount of weeds, for some reason the weeds seemed to just multiply, finding any minute nook or cranny and just ignoring the existence of the barrier; however I must admit there were a lot fewer than in previous seasons.

I was trying to find out how to easily grow (weed free) vegetables – so, with the availability of the Internet and its vast storeroom of knowledge, I found some great ideas on a site called Square Foot Gardening - a vision of a fellow named Mel Bartholomew; read the premise, thought about it, the fact that people proclaim it is a virtually 'weed free' method and noticed how simple and easy it was to implement, decided this was the plan for me..

I downloaded the basic instructions, found out that I probably should buy Mel's book as it was a very recent revision with some new information. So, being the frugal character that I am I downloaded a 40% off coupon from my local bookstore and emerged 30 minutes later with Mel's newest tome on this innovative system of vegetable propagation. This system does entail some expense and basic woodworking, however if you have access to a home building supply center, Lowe's etc… you can get them to do all the wood cutting. Then it's just a matter of assembling your 'garden box'. I think my total expense to purchase materials for two 4x4 foot boxes was $35.00 and for the growing medium/filling what is touted in the book as Mel's mix and what I call Ern's mix, a slight variation, was around $38.00, note that all this was a one-time expense.

I had all my materials, proceeded to assemble the boxes, set them in the garden, filled them with the growing mix and placed the wooden grids which defined the planting areas , all which took about 2 hours or so. Then I planted my plants and seeds, 6 tomato plants an equal number of basil, beets, carrots, peas and bush beans. For some of the seed planting I used seed strips – the seeds were in a water soluble strip, evenly spaced. I saw these at the home center, they were on sale, so being the consummate bargain hunter, plus they touted the fact that it was more economical to buy the seeds this way because you would not have to thin emerging plants which would result in less waste. Well, I'm one for experimenting so I took the plunge and this 'technology' seems to seem to be working OK. Well, except for the cucumbers, I think the birds had a feast on those seeds as I only have a couple of plants emerging (should have been 20-25). And they are not in the square foot garden; they are in an auxiliary, regular soil, planting area, oh well.
It's been a few weeks since I did my initial planting, the tomato plants are flourishing, 3 or 4 times the size of the initial plants, beets and carrots, peas and beans all progressing nicely. The basil is ready to harvest, I did, inexplicably lose one basil plant, can't figure out why, but the others have some nice leaves and I did pick some, will use them this weekend. A friend stopped over during the week and gave me 3 tomato plants he started from seeds he purchased on a trip to Greece. I planted those in the auxiliary garden today; they were pretty good looking, nice and sturdy with good foliage, I'm sure they'll do very well.

I'm not sure if this endeavor is going to save me any money, the initial expensed worked out to about $85.00 – however it's a one-time cost and for the investment I hope to reap a lot more product than in years' past. Plus, I haven't seen a weed yet!

So now it's just a matter of time – I water almost every day, well in the past couple of days I was upstaged by heavy rains which took care of this nicely. I also have a cherry tomato plant planted in a container on my deck, and a planter full of scallions I started from seed. Now it's up to Mother Nature. Stay tuned for the next issue of the PP and my update on my SFG garden and my other miscellaneous plantings.


Gina's Take!
By Gina Maurizio

So much is happening as we enter the second half of 2008. Gas prices make for big conversation along with the upcoming presidential election. There are some local changes with Meriden’s long time mayor leaving us to move on with his career and the Board of Education’s budget cuts also have people stirring with concern for our schools.. So as Bob Dylan sang “The Times They Are A Changing”.

All politics aside, the first half of the year has flown by and it is amazing how time passes so quickly.

Now its time to see what I’ve accomplished and what yet needs to be done.

Hmmmmmm it appears as if there is a lot left to carry out… did I paint the spare room, no, clean the basement… not yet .How about tearing up that old rug? Didn’t happen.
Either I began the year with too much in mind to do, or I kept adding to the list.
Not quite sure.

July is just too great of a month to do too many tasks anyway. There are picnics and graduation parties. Not to forget the Fourth of July and the summer concerts at Hubbard Park .How about a game of miniature golf? Oh yes, I should work on my tan…and I need to purchase more bug spray for nights by the fire pit. Shall we get an ice cream on the way to the store???

Another reason not to over do it is that July is national hot dog month, national blueberry month, ice cream month, and anti boredom month!!!
Who would have thought!! It appears that these important holidays need to be recognized with a reverence, do they not???

That settles it then, as I stroll through the month of July I will leave politics for the politicians and the chores for Autumn.

But I do love to walk in the leaves.

Opportunities in Africa
By Tom Daley

I write this article as a local citizen who has experienced the richness of a continent and a people through three previous trips which were both eye opening and heart opening. My heart was changed, my opinions were destroyed; it was like a laser gun that tore through me and created a vision to be part of a small but growing number of American who want to partner with those Africans who have integrity, vision, and want to see their continent changed while holding on to their wonderful cultural values of a strong family, close village ties, and commitment to the arts, especially the crafts and music/dance. I believe that this is the time America or at least those in the Wallingford-Meriden area to take a look at the opportunities. Hopefully we can get past the tourist mentality of seeing the mud huts off in the distance, shaking our heads, and then refocusing only on the pleasures of our five star hotel or clinging to our tourist guides as we enjoy our safari in either South Africa or Kenya. Although I have taken time off in my travels, in fact about 20% of my time doing R&R, I have also enjoyed the challenges of the other 80%: In the bush (no electricity, no plumbing) addressing key villagers on the merits of this partnership and reminding them that Africa’s greatness lies fore mostly in each African believing in his and her greatness. Because they all have relatives in the cities who watch TV and the American and European shows, they know of our “big buildings” and long interstates and they aren’t afraid of our technology. But we do have a self-esteem problem here as most Africans see themselves as “small” compared to the Americans, Europeans, and Asians. Consequently, I always remind them of the greatness of simplicity as well as the world’s need to be refreshed by their unending joyfulness. Simply put America and the world need Africa just as Africa needs America and the world.

Unless you are really adventurous I suggest that your first adventure over there be for 2-3 weeks to learn the culture; I went to the Maputo-Zimpeto area in Mozambique and did a safari in S.Africa on the way back. This program acquainted me with 500 children who were being housed and schooled in a large compound administered by both Westerners and Nationals; it also gave me the opportunity to visit a village and be honored by all the grateful villagers; I in turn was just as grateful to them for their hospitality. These people and children easily open up their hearts and joyfully embraced the American. I have returned for a three month training and again last year for four months sharing in the bush on weekends and teaching English during the week in the city of Nampula. The response of the African toward us is overwhelming positive; we haven’t colonized their continent and their anti-colonial slogan of “Africa for Africans” has been revised for us, “Americans you have come to see how we are.” They seem to feel that we are concerned for their welfare while also being fearful that their country may be next on our list of nations to be invaded. But these fears seem easy to overcome as one shares a meal with a family in the village, giving out crackers and treats while partaking of their delicious chicken and rice dish, seasoned with mouth watering spices and herbs. On one occasion I supplied the equivalent of $7.00 so an infant could have her medicine for malaria. In their subsistence economy of barter and a few crops, this amount may rarely be seen by some. Visiting the recovered infant later and celebrating with the extended family became a highlight of my trip. Regardless of one’s skills: teaching, nursing, administration, sanitarian, nutritionist, irrigation/farming, or student of international studies- Africa needs you. There is presently a hunger in their hearts to receive us and to hear of the potential greatness in store for them as we partner together. I will be leaving again in August, this time for West Africa I will assist in organizing a private high school. These 300 students are the children of faculty and students of a nearby university and represent a number of nations in the area. These teen students are the future of Africa! Whether Africa dissolves into tribal factions, refuge camps, dictator ruined nations, or places of peace and modern technology will be determined by how we have helped them “catch the fish”, not by how much fish and corn we have supplied. Let us partner and labor along side these Africans, donate our used computers, science equipment, and maybe just some of our time. Check out the opportunities on the net or email me at tomdaley777@yahoo.com, 203-235-7863.

Planning a Family-Friendly Trip

Mapping out fun family travels can be easier than vacationers might expect.

The key is to plan trips around what your whole family enjoys. While that may sound easier said than done—especially with teenagers and small children—travel agents say there are a variety of travel options and tips that can help.

For instance, simply blocking out time for teens to sleep in while on vacation can help keep them happy, and give adults some much needed alone time. You might also want to plan for lots of bathroom breaks and always have snacks in the car if you’re traveling with small children.
Keep It Fun

•Be adventurous and visit a national park or take a safari. Keep the activities interesting for kids as well as the adults. From glaciers and geysers to canyons and deserts, there is something that will wow every age group.

•Cruise ships can be a family vacation planner’s best friend. Picture a floating megaresort with tons for everyone to do—all in a confined space where you know your kids are supervised and safe.
Keep Them Happy

•Give teenagers space by having your travel agent select accommodations that offer more than just one room, such as a suite. Or book adjacent rooms if the budget permits.

•Keep the kids involved by putting them in charge of at least one aspect of the trip. If they’re good with maps, make them the navigator.
Keep It Affordable

•Money is a big part of any travel experience, and the more value you feel you’re getting, the more you’re likely to enjoy yourself. Travel agents can help you plan a trip within your budget and expectations to produce a better vacation experience.

•You might also set a budget with your teens for their incidental spending—and stick with it.

A little research can help you plan a vacation that’s fun for the whole family.

Did You Know?
Summer vacations have long been a tradition in the United States. Perhaps because of school being out for several months during the summer season or the casual attitude summer weather promotes, many people choose to take their vacations in the summertime. While that vacation time is valued, compared to other countries it's miniscule. According to the World Tourism Organization (WTO), among the more developed countries the United States lags far behind some of its counterparts when it comes to the average number of vacation days each year. While the average Italian citizen enjoys 42 vacation days per year, in the United States workers enjoy less than one-third of that total. The average American worker gets just 13 vacation days each year, exactly half the number the country's neighbor to the north, Canada, enjoys each year. Following Italy at the top of the list are France (37 days), Germany (35 days) and Brazil (34 days). Joining the U.S. near the bottom of the listare Korea and Japan, both of which average 25 days of vacation per year.

Did You Know?
Fireworks are known and loved all over the world. They're often a part of festivals and holidays, adding excitement and spectacle. The invention of fireworks is credited to the Chinese. The first fireworks were actually green bamboo that were thrown into fires to scare spirits away in ancient China, called "pas chuk." It is believed that gunpowder was discovered accidentally by a Chinese alchemist who mixed sulphur and salt peter (potassium nitrate) over a fire. The Chinese name for gunpowder is "huo yao" (fire chemical).

DORM LIVING NOT FOR SISSIES
By Phyllis S. Donovan

We were so busy this past spring, we didn’t sign up for my husband’s emeritus reunion at UMass in Amherst until the last minute. By then there was no room in the proverbial inn (that is, all room in the Campus Center hotel on campus had been booked.)

Having stayed other years in the off-campus motels in that area, we remembered how long it took in the inevitable congested traffic around there to get back and forth to the several reunion events scheduled for the weekend.

The alternative was to stay in a campus “residence,” read “dorm,” for the weekend. We reluctantly opted to do that with considerable trepidation, remembering what dorm living was like back when we were students there.

As it was, we were assigned to one of a cluster of four new high-rise dorms which boasted air conditioning, a luxury never even considered in our day. Lucky thing, too, because the weekend promised to be the hottest of the season so far.

Of course, when my husband made the reservation, he didn’t ask if linens were provided, so I packed a bag with two sets of single sheets and pillowcases plus towels and face clothes just in case we needed them. (As it turned out, we only needed the faceclothes.)

We arrived on campus, mid-morning on the Saturday and, instead of checking in at the dorm, went directly to the first reunion event scheduled. From there, we continued on all day from reception to luncheon to tour of the state-of-the-art new library to a carillon concert at the Old Chapel (whose bells I used to ring mornings and evenings when there were only 10 of them that we played by slamming down huge levers one at a time) But I digress.

We finally had a breather in activities to check in at the dorm in late afternoon with barely an hour to spare before the evening reception and dinner. We entered the dorm’s enclosed foyer but couldn’t get through the inner door into the “lobby” until a student at the desk buzzed us in. There we were given our room keys (one for each of our rooms since there was only one single bed in each room) plus a swipe card.

Proceeding to the nearby elevator, we pressed the button and waited and waited, wondering why the thing was so slow, until the guy at the desk told us we had to swipe our card first before summoning the elevator.

Once on the eighth floor, we found our room number at the end of the hall but, try as we might, neither of the keys he had given us worked in the door. Time was fleeting and we were just ready to return to the lobby to inform the fellow in reception that the keys were useless when I spotted another box intended for swipe cards at least five feet from the door. Once we swiped, the key worked fine, admitting us to a suite including a kitchen, lounge area and a row of four doors leading to four individual rooms, each with a bathroom directly across from it.

The bed in one of the rooms looked as if someone had already slept in it and its corresponding bathroom had someone’s shaving supplies lined up on the shelf over the sink. Too late to complain then. We shared the other bathroom, washed up and dressed for the evening function (for which we were already now nearly an hour late) and on the way out, reported at the reception desk about the disarray upstairs. They promised to go up, check the bathroom and make sure the bed was remade while we were out.

After an enjoyable evening spent with fellow classmates we haven’t seen for several years, we decided to check out the town of Amherst before heading back to the dorm. Not much was happening downtown that late at night and on top of that it started to rain heavily. Heading back to campus, we approached the North complex of dorms from a different direction than when we first went there in the sunny late afternoon.

Arriving at the dorm, my husband left me off at the door while he went to park the car in a nearby lot. Entering the foyer, I swiped my card…and nothing happened. The inside door wouldn’t open no matter how many ways I inserted the card. When my husband finally joined me, he couldn’t get the door to open either.

Since our overnight bags containing everything we’d brought with us were stashed on the eighth floor and no way could we come up with the magical “Open Sesame” that would allow us in, my husband took my cell phone and called the campus police to see if they could gain us entry to the place.

“Just where are you, sir?” asked the polite policeman who answered his call. Checking outside the dorm and looking above the door, my husband immediately discovered our mistake. Instead of “North C”, the building where we were assigned, we’d been trying to get into its lookalike neighbor, “North D.”

“Whoops, sorry,” my husband said, and we piled back into the car and made our way to the next dorm where our swipe card worked like a charm and let us in. Finally, back up to the suite we found we were now sharing with another reunion couple, we discovered that the room I had planned to sleep in had a defective lock, the door could be shut, but wouldn’t latch. To top it off, the overhead (and only) light wasn’t working, and the air conditioning vent which was so high on one wall we’d need a ladder (or a broomstick) to reach it was turned on full blast. My husband graciously took that room and I retired to the second room to sleep.

Sleep is not easy to come by when the bed is narrower than a twin bed, the mattress so skimpy my hipbones ached if I lay on one side too long, and, even with the A/C unit closed, one thin blanket was hardly enough to ward off chills. Thrashing around all night, I met the dawn with a grateful sigh of relief.

I remember when we were college age we could shrug off all these minor inconveniences and sleep until noon if we didn’t have a class the next day.


We would have just chalked the whole thing up as a “learning experience” (i.e. we learned we never wanted to sleep in a dorm again) except for the final blow which added insult to injury.

At a lovely farewell breakfast at the Old Deerfield Inn, we learned from classmates that while we had paid $80 for our Spartan dorm lodgings, they had made reservations online at the Campus Center hotel and only paid $77 for a night of comfort.

Before we go back for my class reunion next June, you can bet I’ll be making online reservations in February…or March at the latest for us to stay at the Campus Center hotel too.



And The Birds Have It
By Sil Patterson

This story originally started with a boring commentary about my bedroom window transformation from a shoulder height glimpse of my backyard to a double window giving me five times the view, done in 2002. But the birds I see out this window are the high point of my story. Less than two years ago I gave up on the birdhouse my youngest son and his wife gave me for Christmas and instead, pushed the wrought iron hanger deeper in the ground near my window and purchased from Meriden Feed a case of individually wrapped suet cakes and a wire basket which many birds feed from. Within two to three days the basket is empty: 11 ounces of nutty treat devoured by woodpeckers, grackles, sparrows, blue jays and more, not to mention a few grey squirrels. But the birds had most of it. When I see a squirrel on top of the metal hook I call to my dog, Chipper, who intuitively knows what I want and just misses catching Mr. Squirrel .

There are times when I fail to recognize the type of bird. The jay that oversees all the chaotic activity in a calm almost exulted way, I call Grandpa Blue Jay. Because he is more black than blue I consider him the elder. Other blue jays squawk and compete but he rules. Many of the little brown birds look like sparrows to me; their wings flutter nearly as much as the humming birds’ wings do; are they nervous because of their size or do they love flying? In the winter, occasionally a white capped chickadee stops to feed—a treat for him and a treat for me. The grackles are diverse in form and color but most have a long tail. I stop short on the other side of the window to catch the beautiful purple head of the male common grackle but I’m interrupted by two other smaller grackles who push at the same spot on the suet, and of course, one flies away.

Ironically, my favorites are the woodpeckers. Toward the end of the winter my suet basket disappeared, even the rope that replaced the broken chain was gone. Did the squirrels get it or did a wandering raccoon grab it? Or did the woodpeckers have it? They are beautiful birds and I love watching them but where did those large holes come from on the side of our home; could it be from that huge red headed woodpecker? Am I an enabler, feeding the birds that demolish my home? I asked the boy who sold me more suet and a new basket.. He thought for a minute, “I think the woodpeckers will be less attentive to drilling the house if they can feed themselves in other ways.” (Oh well, one of life’s problems still waits to be solved.) Yesterday I witnessed two small downy woodpeckers kissing or was that an illusion. They danced around the suet, not at all nervously and touched beaks. How could I think ill of them?

My bedroom is confining but my window opens my perspective and my cluttered home no longer closes in on me. No curtain obstructs my view. My grand daughter observed, “Where do you get dressed? Aren’t you afraid someone will watch you?” My answer, “I just turn off the light or dress in the bathroom.”

Perhaps, there’s a raven who peeks in on me—that might bring a little romance, a little fantasy to an older woman’s hum drum life. Speaking of drumming, I must have the deep holes repaired on the side of the house.

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July 2008 Town News and Events

Town News and Events July 2008
Meriden Mayor’s Corner
Mark Benigni
Dear Friends,

I want to thank all of you for the opportunity to be your mayor. You have given me so much and I am very grateful. Thank you Meriden!

Thank you to the Meriden City Council and our dedicated city staff. You have done an amazing job of improving Meriden and you deserve all the credit. Meriden is in good hands.

I am not going to discuss improved finances, creative public safety initiatives, educational improvements, or new homes and businesses. I know you are all saying no, not that again! What I want to share are some reflections on the important things in life, people and the connections we make with them.

This job, and it is a great job, gave me the opportunity to meet so many wonderful people. I will never forget all the ribbon cuttings, ceremonies, and conversations that I shared with Meriden citizens.

As I say farewell, I fondly remember: my council colleagues, Mayor’s Corner guests, Spirit of Meriden Award winners, state and national championship teams, Diner Tour visitors, and all the citizens, (children, adults and seniors) who have dedicated their time and talents to make Meriden a better place for all of us.

Thank you to Jackie Fordiani and Lori Canney, my loyal team at City Hall. You two are terrific, you make me and the City of Meriden look good every day. I will miss the laughs and good times that we have shared together. I would also like to thank my friends who stood by me through the tough times and celebrated with me during the good times.

To my family, you are never alone when you have a wonderful family. My aunts, uncles, in-laws and relatives have always been an excellent support network.

To my beautiful wife Amy, you taught me how to trust and love and you gave me the greatest gifts of all, Bria and Blake. I love you all very much. To my brothers, John and Brian. I probably never told you that I am lucky to have you as brothers and very proud of you both.

Mom and Dad, you may not win awards or get public notoriety for all you have done. But you are my heroes! It’s not a degree or job title that matters. The title that matters most is that of Mom & Dad! I hope I can be half as good a parent as you have been to me. I am so proud of you.

I’ve walked everyday, proud to be your mayor, and excited about my job and the future of our city. I loved every minute of it. Thank You! I never did this job for a newspaper picture or T.V. news story. It was never about making money. It was about making a difference. I did it because I love this city and I am inspired by our citizens.

Nobody will ever tell me or convince me that Meriden is not a great place to grow up. No negative letter to the editor or rude comment will sway me from not believing in our city or challenging our citizens to fight for our hometown.

Meriden is and will continue to be my home.

I am honored to have had the opportunity to be your mayor and thankful to live in such a great city.

Thank you Meriden – For believing with me!
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Wallingford Mayor’s Corner

Dear Friends:
Summer is here again. Our Parks and Recreation Department and Stop and Shop are sponsoring, Twilight Tunes, a series of wonderful concerts for this summer. On Wednesdays, July 9, July 16, July 23, August 6, August 13 and August 20, at 7:00 p.m. until 8:30 p.m. each night, people will enjoy listening to the concerts on the Parade Ground beside Town Hall.

At 7:00 p.m. The Blue Agaves, Changes in Latitudes Jimmy Buffet Tribute Band, and the Latanya Farrell & The Bookman Styles Band will fill the air with their wonderful music on respective Wednesdays in July.
In August, the Wednesday lineup begins at 4:30 p.m. with the Rotary Chicken BBQ on Wednesday, the 6th at Gaylord Hospital. The concert scheduled for August 6th at the Parade Ground features The Musical Mystery Tour. Don’t miss The All Star Disco Review, and Airborne Jazz Band on the following Wednesdays.

The “R” Band Concert Series will present 6 performances on Thursdays, July 10trh, July 17th, July 24th and July 31st at the Wallingford Senior Center from 6:30 p.m. to 7:45 p.m.

New for this summer is the Sunday in the Park With John series of concerts sponsored by Wallingford Center Inc. The John Oblon Orchestra will perform July 13th, July 20th, and July 27th from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Gazebo at the Johanna Manfreda Fishbein Park. Bring a picnic lunch and enjoy the afternoon.

We express our thanks to the talented musicians who will participate and to the people who have planned this very enjoyable series of concerts. We hope to see you at the various events.

Sincerely,
William W. Dickinson, Jr., Mayor



South Meriden Volunteer Fire Department
South Meriden Volunteer Fire Department is celebrating it’s 100 years of service to the Village of South Meriden and the City of Meriden.

During our Anniversary this year we will be celebrating with different events throughout the year. The City’s annual Independence Day Fire Works Display on July 3rd weather permitting will also be dedicated in the honor of our 100th Anniversary. In August we will be celebrating by sponsoring a Carnival starting on Thursday August 21st thru Sunday August 24th located next to our Fire Station located at 31 Camp Street in South Meriden. Our neighbor and friends at AGC Inc., located next to our fire station have allowed us to use their property during the carnival and we want to thank them again for stepping up as great corporate leader by supporting us each year.

On Saturday August 23rd from 10 am to 3:00 pm we will be having an open house at our fire station. During our open house we will be having extrication demonstration, fire extinguishing training and we will also have the State of CT children’s smoke house survival training trailer to demo safe exit during a fire emergency from your home. The American Red Cross will also be at our station doing a blood drive. Please donate and give the gift of life.

Fire Education & Home Safety Check

16 years ago we introduced our annual Home Safety Check for the residents of our fire district. We are still providing this Free service to all our neighbors. Please call us to set up an appointment. We will come to your home and make suggestions on safety items that could protect your family and your home. We will suggest the proper locations for smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, and types of fire extinguishers to have in the home and other emergency equipment that can be used in case of a fire or medical emergency.
Our fire education services are dedicated to developing fire prevention and education projects in the South Meriden community. Some programs involve pre-school and elementary school children while others involve adults and the elderly. Our department also helps businesses with fire extinguishing classes to educate employees in the event of a fire

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“SUNDAY IN THE PARK WITH JOHN”

“Sunday in the Park with John” summer concerts on Sunday afternoons, July 13th and continuing July 20th and July 27th from 4 – 6PM. The free concerts at Wallingford’s Fishbein Park on the railway station green will feature the music and vocals of the John Oblon Orchestra.

The John Oblon Orchestra was formed more than 15 years ago by John Oblon, a retired music educator and administrator in the Meriden School system. The 18 piece orchestra is made up of musicians from a variety of backgrounds, with members who are educators, businessmen, computer programmers, students and retirees. You’ll be able to hear your favorite standards as well as contemporary tunes with a repertoire that spans nearly 5 decades.

The free summer concert series is a production of Wallingford Center, Inc., a non-profit corporation formed to stimulate cooperation between public and private entities to enhance the restoration, preservation, beautification revitalization and utilization of the town’s center. Its purpose is to increase community pride in its historic heritage making the downtown area a focal point and center of community activity.

Bring your lawn chairs, bring a picnic basket and enjoy a warm summer afternoon with great music, family and friends!

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WALLINGFORD SENIOR CENTER NEWS AND EVENTS

Our monthly newsletter can be read in its entirety the first of each month on our website at www.wlfdseniorctr.com

RED CROSS BLOOD DRIVE Wednesday, July 2, 2008
An American Red Cross Blood Drive will be held on July 2, 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., at the Senior Center. Volunteers are needed to help run the canteen, make sandwiches, and provide baked goods for the donors. Registration and escort volunteers are also needed. Please sign up if you can help in any way. Also, blood donors are desperately needed. There is no longer an upper age limit for blood donors. As long as you are in good health, you can donate blood. Please consider giving the gift of life. Call 1-800-448-3543 to schedule your appointment. Thank you!

WEDNESDAY WORKSHOPS: THE CAMPAIGN FOR WISE AND SAFE INVESTING
Wednesday, July 16, 10:00 a.m.
Investors and potential investors are urged to attend this program sponsored by AARP-CT and the Connecticut Department of Banking (DOB). A fun and interesting program format will provide information about: common scams and ways to avoid becoming a victim; how to protect your retirement nest egg; and how to make sure an investment opportunity is registered with the State and the seller is licensed. Refreshments will be served. Please sign up if you plan to attend.

HOW TO SHOP SMART FOR INSURANCE
Wednesday, July 23, 10:00 a.m.
The word insurance makes most people glaze over, tune out, and run for the hills! But wouldn’t you like some unbiased information on how to shop smart for insurance from the Connecticut Insurance Department to find out:
How to qualify an insurance agent/company?
What you need to know when shopping for auto, homeowner, life,
long-term care and Medicare supplement insurance?
What types of insurance problems seniors encounter, including scams, and how to avoid them?
Learn how to get the most for your insurance dollar by attending this workshop.
Pre-registration appreciated by calling 265-7753.

JUST FOR MEN BREAKFAST
Wednesday, July 16, 8:00 a.m.
Join us for blueberry pancakes and a program about the volunteer Connecticut Civil Air Patrol and the role it played in fighting submarines along the East Coast during WWII. Colonel Frederick G. Herbert, a Civil Air Patrol historian, will present “The Connecticut Civil Air Patrol and German U-Boats in Maine”. Col. Herbert will share information about Major Ernest L. Markham (for whom the Meriden airport was named) and his aviators who played a significant role in the anti-German submarine warfare. Tickets are $2 for members and $3 for non-members, and must be purchased by July 15.

ANGELSPEAKE™ CLASSES
Thursdays, July 10 & 17, 10:00 a.m.
Open a communication link to your angels with Angelspeake™ classes. Learn to connect with your angels, your divine messengers, through fundamentals that have succeeded for thousands. Come discover the letting go process and the signs of inner peace. The sessions, held July 10 and 17, 10:00 to 11:30 a.m., will be led by Diane C. Esposito, certified Angelspeake™ Facilitator. The fee, which is $20.00 per class, includes class materials.
Advanced registration is required.
Join the Angelspeake™ Share on Thursday, July 24, from 10:00 to 11:30 a.m. Fee: $15.00. Pre-requisite: Angelspeake™ class.
Book your 15-minute Angelic Reading with Diane on Thursday, July 31. Fee: $15 per reading. Call Diane at 284-1204 to make your reading appointment.

BOOK CLUB
Last month, the members of the Book Club enjoyed a lively discussion about Water for Elephants. Our next meeting will be held Thursday, August 7, at 7:00 p.m. We are reading John Adams by David McCullough.

GOLF LEAGUE 2ND SESSION
The second ten-week session of the Coed Golf League will begin on Tuesday, July 29. Play will be at Miner Hills Golf Course in Middletown. The cost is $151 for members and $156 for non-members. This fee includes nine holes with a cart and a cookout on week #10 at the course. Senior Center members may sign up beginning July 7. Non-members may sign up as of July 14.

INTERFAITH VOLUNTEER CARE GIVERS
July 15, 1:30—3:00 p.m.
YOU Are Invited
Ever wonder who your fellow Interfaith Volunteers are? Do you have a rewarding volunteer experience you want to share? Please join Barbara Barlok, Executive Director of Interfaith Volunteer Care Givers, and Marie Cunha, Social Worker, on Tuesday, July 15. Refreshments and camaraderie will be in abundance! Register at 265-7753 and prepare to smile and socialize.

LOW VISION SUPPORT GROUP
Friday, July 18, 10:15 a.m.
What is low vision? It is a condition that cannot be corrected with surgery, medication, eyeglasses, or contact lenses. People with low vision may experience partial sight, tunnel vision, or blind spots in their vision. Anyone experiencing low vision is welcome to join our friendly group. Next meeting is Friday, July 18, at 10:15 a.m. Kim Garvey from Masonicare is the Director of Group Practice Operations. She will tell us about Masonicare Outpatient Physician Services—primary care physicians specializing in the care and treatment of adults.
Please call 265-7753 to register.
Senior center transportation is available.

Do You Care For Someone Who Has Been Diagnosed With An Irreversible Dementia?
The Agency on Aging can help if the individual with dementia:
Has an annual income of less then $30,000
Has personal cash assets that are less than $80,000 (house is not counted)
The CT Statewide Respite Care Program helps families by assessing what services are needed and paying for some care. Services may include: adult day care, home health aide, homemaker/companion, skilled nursing care, or short-term nursing care. Respite care gives caregivers a break and some relief from the constant physical and emotional stress of caring for a person with Alzheimer’s disease, or related disorders. Please contact a respite care manager at 785-8533, or Marie Cunha, at 265-7753, and learn what respite can do for you.

PERSONAL CARE ASSISTANCE
Individuals with a disability between the ages of 18 and 64 who require hands-on help with at least two of the following activities of daily living: bathing, dressing, eating, transferring, or toileting, may be eligible for assistance under Medicaid to pay for a Personal Care Assistant (PCA). Monthly income cannot exceed $1,869. Assets cannot exceed $1,600. Counted assets include bank accounts, some life insurance policies, savings bonds, and stocks. To request more detailed information, call the Dept. of Social Services at 974-8038

DISCOUNTED TELEPHONE SERVICE
Lifeline is an AT&T discount program for landline customers receiving assistance from one of the following benefit programs: Energy Assistance, ConnPACE, Food Stamps, Personal Care Assistance, Rental Assistance, State Supplement, Medicaid and Supplemental Security Income. Receive $7.00+ off your phone bill.
Please call 1-800-ATT-2020 for details and to apply.

VOLUNTEER FOR A SPECIAL PROGRAM
The Daily Activities for Independence (DAI) is in need of volunteers. If you are interested in making a difference, volunteer for this special social-model day program by calling Melinda Welch, DAI Coordinator at the Senior Center (265-7753).
You’ll be glad you did!
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MAX E. MURAVNICK MERIDEN SENIOR CITIZENS’ CENTER

The Max E. Muravnick Meriden Senior Citizens’ Center is open to all Meriden residents age 55 and over. Membership is free of charge and new members may sign-up any weekday between 9:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. by presenting a driver’s license or other proof of age. New members receive an information package about senior services and a coupon entitling them to one complimentary lunch in our Senior Community Café. Sign-up today and find out about all that is offered for Meriden seniors at the Max E. Muravnick Senior Center!

The Special Day for Special People Committee would like to thank the contributors to this year’s 38th annual picnic in the park for Meriden’s senior citizens held on June 14. This year’s sponsors were AARP Chapter #2954, Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, Broad Street Dairy Queen Brazier, Castle Bank & Trust, City Mission Trustees, James J. LaRosa, John J. Ferry & Sons, Franco American Club, First Congregational Church Women’s Fellowship, GT Tire, Jonal Laboratories, Health Net, Hunter’s Ambulance Service, Lena Rovinsky, Marianna’s Belltop Bakery, Meriden Lions Club, Meriden Parks and Recreation Department, Suzio Insurance Center, L. Suzio Concrete Company, Inc. and United Oil Recovery, Inc. Special Day for Special People is always a wonderful day for Meriden’s senior citizens to enjoy Hubbard Park and we appreciate your financial support for this annual event!

The 2008 Meriden Senior Citizens’ Award Scholarship of $600 was presented at the Senior Center on June 13 to twins Rebecca and Stacey Mills who graduated in June from Orville H. Platt High School. They will attend Bryant University in Smithfield, Rhode Island this fall. Members of the scholarship committee are Senior Center members Anne Aniskiewicz, Lena Rovinsky, Ellie Dessureau, Jenny Corriveau and Josephine Najduch who raise money for the scholarship throughout the year and also choose the scholarship winner.

Senior Center staff members are continuing to take applications for the Rent Relief Program (“Circuit Breaker”) sponsored by the State of Connecticut. The program provides eligible renters with money back on their 2007 rent and utilities based on their income and expenses. If you were a renter age 65 or over during 2007, or on Social Security Disability, you may be eligible to receive a benefit. Application hours are Monday through Friday from 9:00 am to 12:00 noon and from 1:00 to 4:00 pm.

Now that it is July, the hottest month of the year, try to avoid the sun between 10:00 am and 3:00 pm, drink plenty of fluids, wear loose & lightweight clothing, keep your home cool with a fan or air conditioner and, most importantly, remember that the Senior Center is air conditioned for your comfort during the summer months. Have a great summer!
John F. Hogarth - Senior Center Director

CITY OF MERIDEN JULY EVENTS

SWIM LESSONS

Free swim lessons for children ages 4 & older will be held weekdays from 6/30-7/11 and 7/14-7/24. Registration will be held at the Hubbard Park pool (10:30AM) on both Saturday, June 28th and Saturday, July 12th. Children must have a valid 2008 pool pass and bring a bathing suit and towel to register.

INDEPENDENCE DAY CELEBRATION
The City of Meriden’s 2008 Independence Day Celebration will take place on Thursday, July 3rd at Hubbard Park. Food & special entertainers will be available beginning at 5:00PM, the Augusta Curtis Concert Band will be performing in the James J. Barry bandshell at 5:30PM, the Billy Joel cover band 52nd Street will be performing at 8:00PM, and the fireworks display will be shot from atop East Peak at approximately 9:30PM.

SUMMER SOUNDS CONCERTS
The Summer Sounds Concert Series delivers four exciting performances for the month of July(all shows take place at Hubbard Park’s James J. Barry bandshell). On Sunday, July 6th, the patriotic sounds of United States Air Force Band of Liberty can be heard from 7:30-9:00PM. On Thursday, July 17th, the rockin’ blues melodies of EZ Street can be heard from 7:00-8:30PM. The popular band Riverstreet takes the stage on Thursday, July 24th from 7:00-8:30PM. A return to the ‘50’s & ‘60’s will come courtesy of Squeaky Clean on Thursday, July 31st from 7:00-8:30PM. All concerts are free to the public with refreshments available for purchase.

SUMMER PLAYGROUND PROGRAM
The 2008 Summer Playground Program will operate from June 23rd – August 1st at Baldwin Pond Park & Habershon Park for children ages 6-12. Both locations will feature fun-filled days of games, activities, crafts, and field trips. There is no cost except for field trips. The playgrounds will be open Monday-Friday, 8:30AM-3:00PM(please note that on certain days the program will not be available for non-trip
participants). Interested participants can register at the two sites any time the program is in session.

PUBLIC SWIM
The 2008 Outdoor Public Swim Program at the Hubbard Park pool is underway! Daily updates on the program’s hours of operation can be found by calling the Recreation Activity Line at 630-4279.
All interested participants must possess a valid 2008 pool pass. Available for purchase at the Parks & Recreation office, it costs $5.00 for adults & $1.00 for children ages 17 & under. Potential recipients must come to the office in-person and bring proof of Meriden residency to receive a pass.

SUMMER FUN RUNS PROGRAM
The 2008 Summer Fun Runs Program will be held on Wednesday nights at the Platt High School track from June 18th – August 20th. The free runs will get underway at 6:30PM and feature a ¾ mile race for children and a 5K race for adults. Refreshments and prizes will be available.

MERIDEN LIONS CLUB WATERPARK
The Meriden Lions Club Waterpark at City Park, located on the corner of Park Avenue & Franklin Street, has the following hours of operation(weather permitting):
Monday-Saturday 12:00-4:00PM
Sunday 2:00-5:00PM

MERIDEN SKATEPARK
The Meriden Skatepark, located on the corner of Coe Avenue & Hamilton Street, has the following hours of operation(weather permitting):
School Days 2:00PM-Dusk
Non-School Days 11:00AM-Dusk

CASTLE CRAIG
The vehicle access road to Castle Craig is open daily from 10:00AM-4:45PM, weather permitting. The entrance to the road is located under the eastern Interstate 691 overpass in Hubbard Park. Please note the access road will be closed on Thursday, July 3rd.


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July 2008 Local News and Events

The Wallingford Rotary Club will hold its 52nd Annual Chicken Barbecue

on the grounds of Gaylord Rehabilitation Center Wednesday, August 6th from 4:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. The menu will include barbecued chicken, native corn on the cob, corn bread, cold soft drinks, and fresh baked cookies. A children's menu of hot dogs, potato chips, a cold soft drink, and cookies will also be available. Music will be provided by the R-Band under the direction of Pat Lignelli and numerous children activities will be available as well. Throughout the event there will be a "hay ride" and also the opportunity to bid on numerous Silent Auction baskets. The F.O.R.D. Classic Car Club will have numerous antique cars on display. Tickets are available from any Rotary Club member or at Gallagher Travel Shoppe, 369 Center Street, Wallingford. Adult tickets are $12.00 and children tickets are $6.00. Proceeds from this event will benefit the Wallingford Foundation, the charitable arm of the Wallingford Rotary Club. Additional information can be obtained by calling Craig Fishbein at 203-265-2895 or Roz Gallagher 203-265-2856.


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Whalon Scholarship Breakfast

Meriden, CT - Saint Joseph School, 159 West Main Street, is honored to announce that the Most Reverend Peter A. Rosazza will be the guest speaker at the annual Whalon Scholarship Breakfast on July 17, 2008. Bishop Rosazza, who is celebrating his Diamond Jubilee as a Bishop, is the Auxiliary Bishop and Vicar General for the Hispanic Apostolate for the Archdiocese of Hartford. Bishop Rosazza is a member of the National Conference of Catholic Bishops' Committee for Social Development and WorldPeace; is bishop advisor to the National Catholic Student Coalition; and is one of the five bishops who drafted the U.S. Catholic Bishops' Pastoral Letter on the U.S. Economy and Catholic Social Teaching.
The Marion and Dorothy Whalon Scholarship is awarded annually to graduates of Saint Joseph School, Meriden, who are continuing their education at the undergraduate or graduate level. The scholarship has been awarded since 2002, and 30 SJS alumni have been the recipients of approximately $50,000.Past recipients have attended UConn, Western, Eastern, Southern, Connecticut College, Albertus Magnus, Hartt School, Boston College, Tufts University, Smith College, George Washington Law, among others.
Marion and Dorothy Whalon were graduates of Saint Joseph School, and lifelong parishioners of Saint Joseph Parish. The Whalons were annual donors to the Annual Fund of Saint Joseph School, and continued the legacy of their gifts with this bequest of an endowed scholarship in honor of the education they received at Saint Joseph School from the Sisters of Mercy.
Saint Joseph School, a kindergarten to grade 8, archdiocesan elementary school located near the center of Meriden, is a community in pursuit of academic excellence through a lived experience in faith. The school received a ten-year re-accreditation in 2006 from the New England Association of Schools and Colleges, Inc.____________________________________________________________________________________

AN INVITATION TO ARTISANS, CRAFT PEOPLE AND SCULPTORS FOR
CELEBRATE WALLINGFORD 2008

Wallingford Center, Inc. is inviting artists to participate in Celebrate Wallingford 2008 which will take place the weekend of October 4th and 5th. The 22nd annual street festival will be located at Fishbein Park and surrounding neighborhood in downtown Wallingford. Celebrate Wallingford 2008 applicants will be juried by a select group of professional artisans to provide the public with the finest and highest quality art and crafts. For information and applications call Wallingford Center, Inc, 203-284-1807 or by email wallingfordcenter@sbcglobal.net.
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The Wallingford Garden Club and Wallingford Center Inc presents the 2008 Gardener’s Market

Saturday mornings 9:00-12:00 from July 12th to Sept 13th at the Railroad Station Green, routes 5 and 150. Offered will be plants, flowers, produce, unique crafts, baked goods, and special cooked treats from Bob and Carole Golitko. Gardening advice and plant clinic are available. If you wish to be a vendor, please contact Ellie Tessmer, Market Manager at 203-269-2653 or email at swcd43emt@sbcglobal.net.
We are looking for backyard gardeners to share their produce with their own booth, consignment or donations to the Wallingford Garden Club.
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The Meriden Humane Society Desperately Needs Your Help!!

The Meriden Humane Society is seeking the public's help to help care for dozens of cats and kittens removed from a Meriden home several weeks ago. Many of the cats are sick with upper respiratory infections, so the vet bills are adding up very quickly.

Last year the Meriden Humane Society placed 191 dogs and 863 cats into loving homes. They are privately run relying on only private donations. Without the help of the public, they would never be able to take care of so many animals.

They are seeking cat food, wet cat food (no fish), cat litter, linens, towels, and sheets. And most of all, they are seeking cash donations to help defer the cost of the astronomical vet bills. They are located at 311 Murdoch Avenue, Meriden, CT 06450.
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Dear Friends, We could all use some good news about now. So, let’s help our friends and neighbors come together as an organization that will give a real boost to the community! The Meriden ArtsTrust, Inc. and the Zach Weston/Walter Q. Peabody Foundation are 'drumming up" a new community initiative and we hope we can count on your support.
“The Crescendo Committee to bring a new symphony to Meriden", or "The Crescendo Committee" for short, of which I am a part, is a group of musicians and non-musicians who are bringing a new Symphony Orchestra to Meriden. Through e-mail, the area newspapers, posters and word-of-mouth we are contacting everyone who wants to have a lively and active Symphony to once again bring Orchestra music back to Meriden.
Please send this e-mail to anyone who you think would have an interest in helping up bring together adult musicians from age 20 and up who wish to spend quality time together with other musicians and bring a civic orchestra to Meriden.
We all miss “Tchicken and Tchaikovsky”-we all miss the wonderful sounds and lively shared experiences when we go to a Symphony concert.
Musicians- if you're practicing now - why not rehearse?
A benefit concert by Mr. Christopher White, organist, will be announced soon. Please support this wonderful cause and pledge your support for a New Meriden Symphony by purchasing a ticket and attending what will be a great concert and reception.
Thanks for your time, and keep an eye out for the advance publicity!
Please contact meridenartstrust@yahoo.com for more information or call Mrs. Katrina Axelrod at (203) 235-7445, as soon as possible. Thanks in advance for your help!

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Helping Hands Thrift Store

MONTHLY SALES ARE AS FOLLOWS. Fill a bag of clothing only for $5.00 every 2nd Wednesday of the month (brown grocery bags are supplied) 25% off ALL FURNITURE the last Friday of every month. We also have other special sales every week on other items. Stop by and shop our 2 floors of merchandise. Store hrs are Tues.-Sat. 9a.m.-5p.m. and Sunday 10a.m.-2p.m. We are a proud supporter of the Chrysalis Center which is for victims of Domestic Violence. We also help Childhood Dreams and the Meriden Humane Society. Donations of resalable condition are accepted at the store during store hours. Furniture or other large item(s) can be scheduled for FREE pick up! Clothing must be for the season they are being donated in. Just give us a call at (203) 284-0300. Thank You for your donated items and purchases at our store located at 22 No. Turnpike Road in Wallingford

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Learn the ABC’s of Adoption:

Wednesday July 2, 2008 7:00 to 8:00 PM Borders Books and Music Seattle's Best Café 470 Lewis Ave .Meriden, CT 06451 Phone: 203-237-5510

A CARA social worker will explain different types of adoption and offer a step-by-step outline to adopting a child.

Adopting a child from Connecticut state foster care will be discussed, as well as international and domestic infant adoption.

Participants will leave with a folder of resources to help guide families, couples, or individuals wishing to adopt. Contact CARA at: www.adoptacarakid.org or 860-444-0553 to reserve your space today! Child Adoption Resource Association is a non-profit full service adoption agency

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Emergency Medical Technician Course

Hunter’s Ambulance Service, Vehicle and Education Resource Center,
474 W. Main St., Meriden. Classes will start on September 2, 2008 until end of January 2009. They are held on Tuesday and Thursday evenings from 6 p.m. to 10 p.m. Additional Saturday sessions are planned. Students must be over 18 years of age or older. Anyone over 16 but under 18 must have a signed parental permission form. (Available first night of class). Class size is limited to 30 students. For more information please call
(203) 514-5142.
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Do you want practical, easy-to-implement parenting strategies that really work? Then, you're in the right place!

Meriden Family Resource Center Presents: Positive Parenting Wednesdays 9:30-11:30 am July 9- Aug. 13 To register call 237-4743 by June 26. Classes Held At John Barry School 124 Columbia Street
Do you want practical, easy-to-implement parenting strategies that really work? Then, you're in the right place!

This 6-week program is designed to give you powerful, effective, practical techniques that you'll find easy to learn and even easier to use with your children ages infant to eight years old! There will be plenty of time for questions, discussions and idea sharing.#1 July 9: ABC's of Child Development#2 July 16: Why Children Misbehave#3 July 23: Intentional Language#4 July 30: Punishment vs. Discipline#5 August 6: Positive Discipline Techniques#6 August 13: Teaching Values
Childcare will be provided. Class size is limited to 15.
Meriden Family Resource Center is a program of the Meriden Public School System and is funded by the State Department of Education.

Please note: We are able to offer this session of Positive Parenting at no charge due to a grant from Meriden Children First Initiative.

10th annual Meriden/Wallingford Civitan Club Golf Classic

The 10th annual Meriden/Wallingford Civitan Club Golf Classic will be held August 13th at the Tradition Golf Club in Wallingford beginning with registration and a full American breakfast set for 7:30 A.M. A scramble shotgun start will be at 8:30 A.M. All proceeds will benefit the club’s special education scholarship fund. The $125.00 fee includes 18 holes w/cart, tee package, cash awards, pro shop gift certificates, $1000 hole-in-one, and awards dinner of chicken parmigiana/Italian buffet. For more information call George Paradis at (203) 440-4728 or Matt Oblon (203) 284-1685.
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Grants Alert

Community Mediation Inc. of New Haven offers individuals and organizations $2500 Community Conversations grants. The deadline to apply is July 15, 2008.

The grants are used to organize community conversations about education. Recent topics have included: Parental involvement, Promoting Tolerance, School Readiness, Helping all Children Succeed in a Diverse Society, Improving Relations Between Youth and the Police, and Bullying. For the past twelve years the grants have been used by 93 Connecticut communities to organize education discussions. Funding comes from the William Caspar Graustein Memorial Fund.

The conversations bring together a diverse group of 100 local citizens to discuss issues of importance to them. The conversations will be held in 2008 through spring 2009.
Applications and guidelines are available on the Community Conversations website: www.ctconversations.org. For further information call: Community Mediation at: 203 782 3500.

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Americana-Folk and Folk Rock DJ's Wanted on WESU FM For Fall Radio Training
WESU FM's Folk Music Department is looking for Community Volunteers who have an understanding of Americana-Folk and -Folk-Rock Music with or without Community Radio experience.
Established in 1939, WESU is one of the oldest non-commercial radio stations in the United States. Now, in 2006, WESU broadcasts at the frequency of 88.1 megahertz from it's 1500-watt transmitter located atop the Wesleyan Science Tower. WESU offers an interesting mix of Public affairs and free-form music programming to discerning listeners at throughout the Connecticut River Valley and beyond.

Volunteer Training is provided in the Fall of 2008 for those interested in learning about Community Radio.

Must go through Community Radio Training ,Internships and Radio Community Service .

For more information contact Ken Folk and Triple A MD at WESU FM 860-685-7703 and leave your name phone number and contact information.

To listen to WESU FM locally go to WESU FM 88.1 and online at www.wesufm.org
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Deficit Reduction Act Presentation - July 22, 2008

The Center for Successful Aging and MidState’s LaPlanche Clinic will be jointly sponsoring a presentation on the new Deficit Reduction Act (DRA) and how it affects seniors. The presentation will be held on July 22, from 10:30-11:30am in the mezzanine of the Max E. Muravnick Meriden Senior Center, located at 22 West Main Street in Meriden.

Daniel O. Tully, Esq., will be the presenter. He is a partner in the Bristol, Connecticut Law Firm of Kilbourne & Tully, P.C. In addition to speaking about DRA, Attorney Tully will give an overview of the new Medicaid (Title 19) law change and what seniors can do to protect their home and assets against the cost of long term care.

This presentation is free and open to the public. For more information please call Rita Kowalchik at the Meriden Health Department, 630-4222.


HELPING HANDS THRIFT STORE

22 NO. TURNPIKE RD WALLINGFORD (203) 284-0300
STORE HRS: TUES.- SAT. 9A.M.-5P.M.
CLOSED JULY 4TH REOPENING JULY 5TH HAVE A SAFE FUN FILLED DAY!

JULY SALES:
GOING ON NOW: FURNITURE SALE 20% OFF!

JULY 3RD- CUSTOMER APPRECIATION DAY- 10% OFF YOUR PURCHASE OF $10.00 OR MORE EXCLUDING FURNITURE

JULY 9TH-OUT OF SCHOOL SALE- ALL KIDS TOYS, SPORTING GOODS, BIKES 10% OFF

JULY 16TH- $5.00 BAG DAY! BROWN GROCERY BAG PROVIDED-FILL WITH CLOTHING ONLY (NO LIMIT)

COME IN AND SHOP OUR 2 FLOORS OF MERCHANDISE WITH NEW ITEMS BEING ADDED DAILY. DONATIONS ACCEPTED AT THE STORE DURING STORE HOURS ITEMS MUST BE IN GOOD, CLEAN, WORKING ORDER AND CLOTHING MUST BE IN SEASON. WE OFFER FREE PICK UPS FOR LARGE DONATED ITEMS SUCH AS FURNITURE OR APPLIANCES.
SORRY WE DO NOT ACCEPT USED MATTRESSES. PLEASE CALL THE STORE IF YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT ITEMS WE DO ACCEPT OR NEED A PICK UP SCHEDULED.
YOUR PURCHASES AND DONATIONS HELP US SUPPORT THE CHRYSALIS CENTER AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND IS GREATLY APPRECIATED BY THE STORE, THE CHRYSALIS CENTER AND THOSE IN NEED.

THE STORE IS IN NEED OF A WORKING CREDIT CARD MACHINE IF ANYONE HAS ONE THEY WOULD LIKE TO DONATE OR IS SELLING VERY REASONABLY PLEASE CALL, THANK YOU.

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AMERICAN RED CROSS BLOOD SCHEDULE
JULY WALLINGFORD, MERIDEN, CHESHIRE, NORTH HAVEN

Tue-July 1 Highland Health Care Center 12:00- 5:00pm
745 Highland Ave, Cheshire

Wed-July 2 Wallingford Senior Center 9:00 – 6:00pm (double)
238 Washington St, Wallingford

Wed-July 2 *Verizon Wireless 10:00- 3:00pm
20 Alexander Dr, Wallingford

Sat-July 5 Westfield Meriden 10:00- 3:00pm
470 Lewis Ave, Meriden

Mon-July 7 *Cheshire Correctional 9:00- 2:00pm
900 Highland Ave, Cheshire

Mon-July 7 *Alexion Pharmaceuticals 8:00- 1:30pm
352 Knotter Dr, Cheshire

Tue-July 8 Northeast Utilities 10:30am- 3:30pm
705 West Johnson Ave, Cheshire

Fri-July 11 *Pratt & Whitney 8:00am- 5:30pm (double)
500 Knotter Dr, Cheshire

Mon-July 14 Wallingford Library 1:00- 5:45pm
200 North Main St, Wallingford

Mon-July 14 *CT Police Academy 8:00am- 4:00pm (double)
285 Preston Ave, Meriden

Tue-July 15 *Amphenol-Times Micro 10:00- 3:00pm
358 Hall Ave, Wallingford

Fri-July 18 CHA 10:15- 3:15pm
110 Barnes Rd, Wallingford

Fri-July 18 Praline’s Ice Cream 1:00- 6:00pm
1122 No Colony Rd, Wallingford

Fri-July 18 Bob’s Stores 9:00- 2:30pm
160 Corporate Ct, Meriden

Sat-July 19 New Life Church 8:00am- 1:00pm
92 Main St, South Meriden

Wed-July 23 Zandri’s Stillwood Inn 10:00- 6:00pm (double)
1074 So Colony Rd, Wallingford

Thur-July 24 Temple Lodge #16 1:00- 6:30pm
9 Country Club Rd, Cheshire

Thur-July 24 North Haven Health & Racquet 1:00- 6:45pm
100 Elm St, North Haven

Tue-July 29 Brook Hollow Health Care 11:15- 4:15pm
55 Kondracki Ln, Wallingford

Tue-July 29 Milone & MacBroom 9:00 – 2:00pm
99 Realty Dr, Cheshire

TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT, PLEASE CALL 1-800-433-1879
TBA = TO BE ANNOUNCED * CLOSED TO PUBLIC
SERVING CHESHIRE, MERIDEN, NORTH HAVEN, WALLINGFORD
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July 2008 Library News and Events


Reading Recycled:
Wallingford Public Library Accepts Used Book Donations

The Wallingford Public Library is now accepting donations of used books, CDs, DVDs, and videos in very good condition for its used books sales.

Donations may be brought to the Information Desk when the Library is open; please do not leave them outside the building. For large donations, please notify staff at the Information Desk before bringing the books inside. We cannot accept magazines, National Geographics, record albums, Reader's Digest Condensed Books, textbooks over five years old, or encyclopedias over ten years old.

Watch for the opening of our new small, but cozy, book sale shop, located inside the Library, near the back entrance. Information about this shop as well as hours of operation will be available soon.
Please call the Library for more information at 203-265-6754.


Wallingford Public Library Children’s Room Seeks Students for Summer Volunteers

Wallingford students who will be entering grades five, six or seven in fall of 2008 are encouraged to fill out an application and volunteer to help the staff with the Wallingford Public Library 2008 Summer Reading Program entitled, Catch a Dragon by the Tale.

Volunteers are needed to help younger children and their families participate in the Summer Reading Program which will run from June 30th to August 9th. This is a great opportunity for students who enjoy both the Library and helping others.

Application forms are available in the Children’s Room as well as online at www.wallingford.lioninc.org
Applications are due back at the library by June 10th.

SUMMER READING PROGRAM: CATCH A DRAGON BY THE TALE

This summer the Wallingford Public Library Children’s Library summer reading program is Catch a Dragon by the Tale. This program is for all ages-because being read to does count! Kids can register for this fun, free program full of incentives and special events any time before August 8, when the program ends. They can start logging their reading time starting June 25 and anything kids read for the library, counts for the Governor’s summer reading too!

For every two hours kids read, or are read to, they will receive a sticker. Kids start out as a “Page” and work their way up to “Dragon Master”. Along the way they win prizes and lots of cool stuff. There are lots of exciting events happening at the library geared for all ages. Starting in July we have storytime programs for children birth to age five, special events for elementary school age children as well as programs just for preschoolers.

The Wallingford Public Library Children’s Library summer reading program runs from June 30 through August 8. So “catch a dragon by the tale” and come have fun this summer at the library. Check us out online at www.wallingford.lioninc.org or come in to visit us.

Percy Jackson Trivia Show at the Wallingford Public Library

On Tuesday, July 8 at 7:00p.m. all fans of Rick Riordan’s The Lightning Thief are invited to join us as we welcome Christopher Hurlbert for an evening of Percy Jackson trivia. This free program geared for kids in grade four and up, explores Percy Jackson’s world of Greek Gods and Goddesses.

Free tickets for this event will be available starting on Tuesday, June 24 for Wallingford residents. Non-residents can pick up tickets the day before the program if they are available.

ROCK AND ROLL AT WALLINGFORD PUBLIC LIBRARY

Wallingford Public Library's Teen Librarian, Jennifer Nash, has orchestrated a summer of "Rock & Roll" for the library. "One of my goals as a librarian is to change teen perception of the library as a place only to visit for homework assignments. Many teens think the library is just for books. The library has so much more to offer," says Nash. With that in mind, Nash has developed a rock and roll themed summer reading program called "Lets Rock & Roll" for teens in grades 6 through 12. The program includes competitions using the Nintendo Wii gaming system. "I was able to convince our director that we needed to go ahead and get into gaming in order to tap into the teen market. We are using the Wii version of 'Guitar Hero' to kick off our summer reading program on June 30th and next month we will be holding a 'Dance Dance Revolution' tournament, explained Nash. The program's culmination will be August 21st when the Detroit rock and roll band, "The High Strung" will perform a free concert in the library's Community Room. "I found the band by listening to National Public Radio one afternoon. The NPR story featured interviews with The High Strung band members and played some of their music. The High Strung is taking part in a national Rock & Roll library tour this summer to help change what people might think of their local library. I was hooked on their mission," says Nash, "I am so excited to be included in their summer concert tour schedule." For more information and to listen to music clips, check out the band's website: http://www.thehighstrung.com/

In addition to the games and music, the Teen Summer Reading Program encourages teens to read their favorite books and enter to win a variety of prizes, including autographed celebrity photographs, gift certificates, and movie tickets. For more information contact Jennifer Nash, jnash@lioninc.org or call the library's Information Desk: 203-265-6754.


Wallingford Public Library Announces Adult Summer Reading Program:

“Read ‘Em and Eat!”

Participate in the Library’s Adult Summer Reading Program and get rewarded for reading your favorite books!

Beginning June 26th adults are able to earn chances to win a gift certificate to a local restaurant by participating in our Adult Summer Reading Program, “Read “Em and Eat.” To enter, read any book(s), and fill out a form for each book (available at the Information Desk.) Each week beginning on July 3, forms will be entered into a random drawing and a gift certificate will be awarded to the winner. Subsequent drawings will be held July 3, 10, 17, 24, 31 and August 7, 14, 21. A grand prize drawing will be held on August 28 when the forms from all the past weeks will be entered into a drawing for a $50.00 gift certificate to one of the participating restaurants. Look for our “dining display” at the Library! The more you read, the better your chance to win!

This year’s participating restaurants are: Archie Moore’s, Gaetano’s Tavern on Main, Half Moon Coffee Café and Grill, Laskara Restaurant, Michael’s Trattoria, 95 Gathering Place, Tata’s Restaurant, and Westbrook Lobster Company. Participants must be a minimum of 18 years old to enter.

Author and Connecticut Native, C. Leigh Purtill to Speak at Wallingford Public Library

Join the Wallingford Public Library in welcoming author and Connecticut native, C. Leigh Purtill, author of the popular teen novel, Love, Meg on Thursday evening June 26 at 7:00 p.m. in the Library's Community Room. In addition to her novel, Ms. Purtill has written for television. Her screen writing credits include Gilmore Girls and 7th Heaven.

Come and hear Ms. Purtill talk about her writing career, listen to excerpts from her book, and learn what it's like to write for a living. Bring your questions.
MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY ANNOUNCES NEW HOURS

The Meriden Public Library announces their new hours. Summer hours (July 7 through August 30) will be Monday through Wednesday, 9:30 a.m. to 8:30 p.m., Thursday and Friday, 9:30 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., closed Saturday and Sunday.

Beginning in September, the Library will be open Monday through Wednesday, 9:30 a.m. to 8:30 p.m., Thursday through Saturday, 9:30 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., closed Sunday.

The Library will be closed for the holiday on Friday, July 4 and Saturday, July 5, and for Labor Day on Monday, September 1. If you have any questions about our hours, please call the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349.


Meriden Public Library Children's Library Is Buzzing About Summer!
Spend your summer with us. Professional performers programs will be on Monday evenings at 6:00 &Thursday mornings at 10:30. FREE tickets will be available June 2nd in the Children's Library. Some programs are age restricted of have limited seating. The following programs will be presented:
July 3-Dan Bowen-Magic show. Ages 3 and up.
July 7-Lion Heart Puppets-Puppet Show. Ages 4 and up.
July 10-Wildlife Adventure-Animals include some of the most spectacular reptiles, amphibians and
gigantic bugs. Ages 3 and up.
July 14-Reptile Program-Ages 4 and up.
July 17-Air Borne Jugglers-Ages 4 and up.
July 21-Circus Suitcase-All ages.
July 24-Les Julian Family Concert-All Ages
July 28-Ventriloquist Larry Novia-Ages 4 and up.
July 31-Trash to Tunes-All ages
We will also be having the following story hours:
Mondays at 2:00 PM. for children going into grades 3-5
Tuesdays for 3-4 years old at 11:15 AM., 1:15 PM., and 6:30 PM.
Wednesdays at 11:15 AM. and at 6:30 PM. for 2-3 years old with parent or care giver
Children going into Kindergarten through second grade at 2:00 PM.
For more information call the Children's Library at (203) 630-6347.


CHILDREN’S SUMMER PROGRAMS AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY

MERIDEN-See Our Special Programs At The Meriden Public Library, Children's Library. Dan Bowen will be performing magic at its best on July 3 at 10:30 AM. For children ages 3 and up.

Come and enjoy "Lionheart Puppets" on July 7th at 6:00 PM. Puppeteer Matthew Leonard will be performing "The Reluctant Dragon" based on the story by Kenneth Grahame. Lionheart Puppet Company has been entertaining audiences throughout the Northeast with their delightful handpuppet shows. This program is a great way to introduce children to literary adaptations as well as loyalty and the arts. On July 10th at 10:30 AM. we will be presenting "Wildlife Adventures". Come meet a Wallaby and other creatures of the wild. Sue DeFrancesco and her animal show have been appearing for years over a two state area and her animals include some from all over the world. She is certified in archeology, has been an associate zoo editor for a magazine and hosted a cable access TV show, "Animal Talk" for many years. Come to this family program and learn all about animals of the wild.
"The World of Reptiles and Amphibians" will be starting off our week on Monday, July 14th at 6:00 PM. Adam Harris will introduce a variety of reptiles and amphibians to the library. See many slithery slimy creatures. For children ages 4 and up. "Airborne Jugglers" on July 17th at 10:30 AM. A special program showing you the art of juggling with Joe Murray and Susan Murray. Watch this Dynamic Duo's perfect timing, and good humor, and unequaled professionalism. This program will be followed by a juggling workshop. For children ages 4 and up.

On July 21st 6:00 PM-"Circus Suitcase" is a one man show! This program gives everyone an opportunity to participate in an enthralling, whimsical celebration of the imagination. The show has been performed over 500 times around the globe. From this suitcase an entire circus emerges: tent, band, lights, and the ringmaster. However, the most important performers emerge from the audience. Come have some fun with us. On July 24th 10:30 AM-"Les Julian Family Concert"- Nationally known Les Julian will "delight and transport" you with his songs and music. Les Julian writes along to make you laugh and think. This program is for the whole family. Come get your FREE tickets.

Monday, July 28th at 6:00 PM.-Come see a New England Ventriloquist and Comedy Find Larry Noiva Featuring his sidekicks Howie, Rose and Sal Monella also Reggie the Rabbit. Noiva's side-splitting routines are always tropical and well-placed. Watch out for Howie....he's a wise cracker. This program is for ages 4 and up. Thursday, July 31st at 10:30 AM.-"Trash To Tunes"-Dennis Waring is an educational music consultant, musician, instrument maker, author, and professional teacher. His story telling ability using his unusual instruments have thrilled audiences from day care centers to colleges. Join in the fun. This program is for all ages.

For more information and free tickets call us in the Children's Library at (203) 630-6347

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July 2008 Health News and Events







Health July 2008


Mark Your Calendars – Health Fair August 9

Save the Date - the Meriden-Wallingford Branch of the NAACP, in partnership with the Community Health Center of Meriden and the Meriden Health Department, will be hosting its annual health and wellness fair on Saturday, August 9, from 11:00am-2:00pm at the Meriden HUB location.

Health information and screenings will be offered from over 50 vendors; raffle items will be available as well as fun entertainment, Double Dutch jump rope demonstrations, and Step performers. This family event is free, and all are welcome!

For more information on the event, please contact Angela Simpson at 630-4237. This is guaranteed to be a fun, informational event for everyone!



Controlling High Blood Pressure and High Blood Cholesterol:
What you Need to Know

As part of a new cardiovascular health program called W.I.S.H.H. (Women Interested in Staying Heart Healthy), the Meriden Health Department will be hosting a presentation on controlling high blood pressure and high blood cholesterol on July 8, 2008. The presentation will be held at the Meriden Public Library, located at 105 Miller Street, from 6:00-7:00pm.

Dr. Robert Golub, from Midstate Medical Center, will be the presenter. Heart healthy snacks will be served, and educational information will be available.

This event is free and open to the public. To RSVP, please call Lea Crown, Community Health Educator, at 630-4238.


Beat the Heat – Stay Cool This Summer

Well, we don’t need to tell you that summer is here, and boy, is it hot outside! Although anyone can develop a heat-related illness, the elderly, young children, and individuals with disabilities or chronic disease such as heart disease and respiratory conditions such as asthma are especially vulnerable.

Be aware that any sudden change in temperature, such as an early summer heat wave, can be stressful to the body. Signs of heat-related illness include:

Heat cramps – rapid heartbeat; hot, sweaty skin; dizziness; fainting and exhaustion; nausea and vomiting.
Heat exhaustion – cool, moist, pale skin; headache; nausea; skin may feel hot; dizziness and weakness or exhaustion.
Heat stroke – vomiting; decreased alertness level or complete loss of consciousness; high body temperature; rapid, weak pulse; rapid, shallow breathing. Heat stroke is a medical emergency – call 9-1-1 immediately.

To prevent heat-related illness, take these precautions:

Increase your fluid intake. Do not wait until you are thirsty to drink. Drink 2-4 glasses of water or sports beverage each hour. Avoid drinks that have caffeine, alcohol, or large amounts of sugar in them. Provide pets with plenty of water, too.
Choose lightweight, light-colored, loose-fitting clothing. Protect yourself from the sun by wearing sunscreen, a wide-brimmed hat, and sunglasses.
Limit exercise when it is hot, and limit outdoor activity to morning and evening hours. Rest often in the shade.
Stay indoors and, if possible, stay in an air-conditioned place. If you do not have air-conditioning, visit a public place (the mall, library, Senior Center, or community center) that has air conditioning.

Remember, never leave small children, pets, disabled, or elderly individuals in a closed, parked vehicle. Check-up on family and neighbors who are at greatest risk of heat-related illness:
Infants and children up to four years of age
People 65 years of age or older
People who are overweight
People who are disabled or have chronic medical conditions

For more information about heat, please contact the Meriden Health Department at 630-4221, or visit our website, www.meridenhealth.com, for a brochure on heat-related illness.


Mark Your Calendars – Health Fair August 9

Save the Date - the Meriden-Wallingford Branch of the NAACP, in partnership with the Community Health Center of Meriden and the Meriden Health Department, will be hosting its annual health and wellness fair on Saturday, August 9, from 11:00am-2:00pm at the Meriden HUB location.

Health information and screenings will be offered from over 50 vendors; raffle items will be available as well as fun entertainment, Double Dutch jump rope demonstrations, and Step performers. This family event is free, and all are welcome!

For more information on the event, please contact Angela Simpson at 630-4237. This is guaranteed to be a fun, informational event for everyone!



Seminar to Focus on Emotions and Alzheimer’s Disease

MERIDEN, Conn.: The public is invited to “Emotional Intelligence and Alzheimer’s: Utilizing and Understanding Emotions” from 6 to 7:30 p.m.., Tuesday, July 15 at The Village at Kensington Place, 511 Kensington Ave., Meriden, Conn.

Ron Bowen, executive director at The Village at Kensington Place, will lead the discussion. Attendees will learn how the brain produces emotions and the way changes in the brain affect the emotions of people with Alzheimer’s and other dementias.

The program is free and open to the public. Refreshments will be served. Please RSVP to The Village at Kensington Place at 203-235-0181.

The Village at Kensington Place provides independent living, assisted living, and the Harbor Program,
which provides specialized care for those with Alzheimer’s disease and other memory impairments.

The community is operated by Benchmark Assisted Living, based in Wellesley, Massachusetts. Benchmark is the largest privately held provider of senior living services in the Northeast and is committed to setting the standard of excellence in senior housing. The company develops, owns and manages an array of senior living communities which offer independent living, assisted living, and specialized assisted living for the memory impaired. Benchmark operates 43 communities in Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont, Rhode Island and Maine. Visit Benchmark at www.benchmarkquality.com.


What’s going on with Our Food Supply?

Eloise Hazelwood

Wallingford Health Dept
294-2065

We have had many recalls and food alerts that impacted us all recently. So what’s going on with our food supply? First, it’s important to note that there are several agencies responsible for the oversight of food safety in the US. At the federal level, the two most important agencies are the US Department of Agriculture and the US Food and Drug Administration. The USDA is responsible for many aspects of our nations food supply, including inspection of livestock and manufacturing processes (it sounds so much better then “slaughter house”) and shellfish inspection. The USFDA is responsible for food imports and food additives. Their are many more agencies at both the State and Local level responsible for other aspects of food safety, including Local Health (that’s us) and retail food service.

Increased production and technology has enabled us to enjoy fruits, vegetables and exotic produce that were not previously available to us (who has a kiwi tree in there backyard?). With increased imports and transportation comes an increased risk to the food supply and a demand for increased oversight. Questions include where did the water come from to irrigate the fields (is it safe)? What about the fertilizer or vehicles used to transport the product? And of course, did the foodhandler practice good hand hygiene after using the toilet?

Tracing an outbreak can be VERY difficult as there are MANY steps along the way from the field to the grocery store that may impact the food. There are simple things that you can do once you get the food home. Always wash the produce before eating it; LOTS of folks have handled those grapes before they got to your mouth. It’s also important to refrigerate melons once they have been cut as salmonella bacteria may be present on the outside and the knife you used to cut the melon now carried the bacteria to the melon.

The internet is a wonderful place to check for food recalls and to get the facts right. For example, heating/boiling the recently recalled tomato IS NOT OK. The CT DPH has many useful links on the home web page for food safety. (www.ct.gov/dph) including links to the recent food recalls.

As consumers increase the demand for new and exotic food items, the risk of food recalls increases. Now is the perfect time of year to plant your own garden or visit the local farmers market for fresh locally grown produce. Remember, wash your hands, wash your produce and fruit and be an informed consumer, read the papers or websites for important information regarding recent food recalls. Have a safe and fruit-filled summer!

For more information, contact your local health department.



CANCER CENTER
For more information on Cancer Center programs or to register
Please call 203-694-8353, unless otherwise noted.

Focus on Healing
Tuesdays, July 1, 8, 15, 22; August 5, 12, 19, 26; September 9, 16, 23, 30
5:30 to 6:45pm
An effective therapeutic program of exercise and movement to music for anyone who has experienced breast cancer.
Designed to help women experience total body movement and ease adjustment to a new body image.
The Village at Kensington Place, 511 Kensington Ave., Meriden.
Registration required.
Cost is $15 for one trial session; $75 for series of 8 and $5 of trial fee will be deducted from cost of 1st series for new registrants.
Dance Therapy
Facilitated by Susan L. Sandel, Ph.D., ADTR, LCAT, CLM
203-457-1656

Afternoon Breast Cancer Support Group "Bosom Buddies"
Wednesdays, July 2, August 6, September 3, 2008
3:30-4:30pm
A group for women diagnosed with breast cancer.
Cancer Center Conference Room
Katherine Clements, RN, OCN
203-694-8463

Art Therapy
Tuesdays July 1, 15; August 5, 19; Sept. 2, 9.
5:30-8:00pm
A program to help people touched by cancer find strength and hope through creative expression.
Cancer Center Conference Room
Registration required.
Katherine Clements, RN, OCN

Pilates for Breast Cancer Survivors
Every Thursday
5:00 – 6:00pm
A modified Pilate’s exercise class facilitated by Linda Durhan, M.D. for breast cancer survivors.
Registration and physician permission are required.
Horwitz Conference Center, Southington/Cheshire Rm, 2nd Fl @ MidState Medical Center
Registration Required
No Cost
Katherine Clements, RN, OCN
203 -694-8463

“LOOK GOOD…FEEL BETTER”®
Mondays, July 14, August 11, September 8, 2008
2:00-4:00pm
"A program for women undergoing cancer treatment, featuring a licensed
cosmetologist to provide supportive techniques on skin, makeup, and hair
care. This is a free, non-medical, product-neutral program offered in
partnership with the American Cancer Society"
Cancer Center Conference Room
Registration required.
203-694-8433
Sharon Jackson, RN

Leukemia/Lymphoma Support Group
Wednesdays, July 9, August 13, September 10, 2008
5:30-7:00pm
Join other patients who have been diagnosed with leukemia, lymphoma, Hodgkin’s disease, and Multiple Myeloma. Caregivers are welcome.
Radiation Oncology Waiting Area
Diane Lafferty, LCSW

Women's Cancer Support Group
Mondays, July 21, August 18, September 15, 2008
6:00-7:30pm
Join Diane Lafferty, LCSW and Kathy Clements, RN for discussion in this group for women diagnosed with cancer.
Radiation Oncology Waiting Area
Diane Lafferty, LCSW

Hispanic Breast Cancer Support Group
Thursdays, July 17, August 21, September 18, 2008
6:30-8:00pm
"Spanish-speaking women with a diagnosis of breast cancer are invited to join group leader Virginia Aviles
Cancer Center Conference Room
Diane Lafferty, LCSW

Prostate Support Group
Mondays, July 21 and September 22, 2008
6:00-7:00pm
"Prostate Support Group general meeting
A forum for cancer patients and their families."
Horwitz Conference Center, Rooms 2 & 3 at MidState Medical Center
Registration preferred
203-694-8433
Sharon Jackson, RN

FAMILY BIRTHING CENTER
To register for any of our Family Birthing Center Programs or to get more information, please call our toll free number 1-866-MMC-5678 (unless otherwise noted). Registration Required for ALL classes.

Weekly Breast Feeding Support Group
Every Tuesday
10:30 - 11:30am
Come join new or experienced mothers and their babies in a relaxed atmosphere to discuss the adjustments and successes of breastfeeding for the 0-6 month age group. Group discussion is open format and facilitated by a Lactation Consultant or Nurse.
Sleep Care Center in Cornerstone Pavilion at MidState Medical Center
No Registration Required
Cost: Free
Dawn Flohr, RN, BSN, IBCLC

Infant Massage
Tuesdays, July 1, 8; August 5, 12; September 2, 9, 2008
12:00 – 1:00pm
For Infants up to 6 months. Designed to help you and your baby grow closer to each other, build muscle tone, coordination and brain function. Massage helps to establish a pattern of relaxation at an early age that your child can follow into adulthood. SPONSORED by the MidState Medical Center’s Auxiliary.
Bring a Mat or Blanket
Sleep Care Center in Cornerstone Pavilion at MidState Medical Center
Registration Required

Sibling Class
Wednesdays, July 2, August 6, September 3, 2008
5:30 - 6:30pm
Sibling class is an interactive presentation for children 2 ½ years of age and older. This class includes discussion on what a new baby looks like, what a new baby does, and what a sibling can do with their new brother or sister. The class also includes listening to a story, watching a video on being a big brother or big sister, and practicing things like changing diapers and holding and burping a pretend baby. The class concludes with a tour of the Family Birthing Center and when permissible, the siblings get to see a newborn infant.
Rear of cafeteria at MidState Medical Center
Cost is $15.00 for the entire family

Child Birth Education Class - 6 Weeks
Tuesdays, July 29, 2008 or September 16, 2008
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
7:00 - 9:00 pm
This is a six-week in depth series designed to give parents an understanding of birth options and coping skills for labor and delivery. Discussion, practice/demonstration of muscle toning, relaxation, breathing techniques, as well as film presentations and a tour of the Family Birthing Center are all part of the classes.
Rear cafeteria at MidState Medical Center
$80.00

Breast Feeding
Thursdays, July 10, August 7, September 4, 2008
7:00 - 9:00pm
Thinking about breastfeeding your baby? This 2-hour class is designed for any mother exploring the option of breastfeeding. Various topics reviewed to promote a successful experience. Class format is open for questions and discussion. Partner or support person welcome.
Rear of cafeteria at MidState Medical Center
Free if delivering at MidState,
$10 for others

Childbirth Refresher Class
Thursday, August 21, 2008
7:00 - 9:00pm
For those who just need a refresher in child birthing, this one-day, 2-hour class will meet their needs.
Rear cafeteria at MidState Medical Center
$25.00

Child Birth Education Classes -SAT
Saturdays, July 12 or September 13, 2008
8:00 - 4:30pm
For those who cannot attend the six-week series, Family Birthing Center offers a one-day, 8-hour class. It is an abridged version of the six-week in-depth classes.
Horwitz Conference Center at MidState Medical Center
$80.00

HEALTHY LIFESTYLES

Living With Intent in Uncertain Times: The Mind, Body, Spirit Connection
Presented by Doreen Bottone, Chaplain
Tuesdays (four weeks), September 9, 23, 30 and October 7, 2008
6:45 – 8:30pm
This workshop will focus on ways to heal your body, mind and spirit. We will address our stressors and provide practical techniques to help cope with our many challenges. Each week we will practice a different the relaxation technique, including visual imagery, meditation, and mindfulness. We will also learn and practice cognitive restructuring. We will also explore the theories regarding the meaning of suffering, the value of forgiveness, humor and a belief system and the power of energy healing.
Horwitz Conference Center, Room I at MidState Medical Center
Cost is $10.00 for all four sessions
Please call 203-694-8369. Leave your name, phone number and address.

LaPLANCHE CLINIC
All Programs will be held at LaPlanche Clinic – Meriden Senior Center lower level, 22-26 West Main St, Meriden
unless otherwise specified. Please contact Jackie Hackbarth at 237-0300 (Mon-Tues-Wed)

Lyme Disease and West Nile Virus
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
10:30 – 11:30am
Scott Bryden, Chief Sanitarian
Meriden Health Department

Pack Your Bag: Free Medication Consultation Program
Monday, September 15, 2008
1:00 – 3:00pm
Local pharmacists will meet individually with participants to answer questions about prescription and non-prescription medications to determine if there are potential interactions between prescription medications. We will also offer tips for medication compliance and help identify duplicate and outdated prescriptions.
Call for an appointment
Bring all medications (prescription and over the counter)

Dietary Strategies for Cholesterol Management
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
10:30 – 11:30am
Lisa Pranger, Registered Dietitian

Young at Heart
Tuesdays
10:30-11:30am
The “Young at Heart” group meets every Tuesday from 10:30–11:30am. Activities include lectures, discussions, field trips, luncheons, sing-a-longs and more. Open to area seniors aged 60 and over.

MIDSTATE VNA & HOSPICE

Bereavement Support Group
Tuesdays, July 8, 22; August 12, 26; September 9, 23
5:30 – 6:30pm
This professionally facilitated interfaith group is open to all bereaved members of the community. The purposes of the group are to assist people in understanding grief as a natural response to loss, to allow the expression of feelings, to provide mutual support and to effect appropriate life adjustment to loss.
MidState Medical Center, 883 Paddock Ave., Meriden
No registration required
Rev. Trudy Brady, 203-265-3971
Donations to MidState VNA & Hospice gratefully accepted

Cholesterol Screening
Tuesdays, July 22, August 19, September 23, 2008
Instant results of your total cholesterol and HDL levels will be given along with dietary instructions to reduce your cholesterol levels.
Community Office at MidState VNA & Hospice
MUST call for an appointment (morning appointments are available)
$20.00
203-630-7103

Emergency Response System
The Philips Lifeline emergency alert system is available through the MidState VNA. If you or a loved one are at risk of falling or have concerns about your health status, the Philips Lifeline emergency alert system provides peace of mind knowing help is at your fingertips. 1-800-242-1306 x4744

Foot Clinic
Foot Clinics will be offered in Meriden at the LaPlanche Clinic at the Senior Center, The Silver Pond Apartments Community Room in Wallingford by appointment only. Clinics are held several times during the month. Foot and toe nail inspections are done at a discounted rate. Call for an appointment (203) 630-7103

MID-STATE SPECIAL EVENTS

Cancer Survivors’ Day
Sunday, September 14, 2008 2:00 – 4:00pm
Hubbard Park, Meriden Please join us for refreshments, children’s activities, speakers, entertainment, games, drawings and fun! Register by calling The Cancer Center at (203) 694-8353.

The Pink Partini
Call 203-694-8742 for reservations Tuesday, October 28, 2008 6:00 – 9:00pm
Fashion Show in support of MidState Medical Center’s Cancer Center. Fashions by The Dressing Room in Wallingford, Kimberley Boutique in West Hartford and additional stores to be announced; hair by Hilites of Southington and makeup by Motives.
Registration Required Reservations can be made for tables of 10 $50 per person Aqua Turf, Plantsville
Cocktails and hors d’ oeuvres with a signature martini, Dream Girl

THE HEART CENTER
For more information on Heart Center Programs below, please call 203-694-8541. There is no cost for these programs All Programs will be held in the Horwitz Conference Center , 2nd FL, Wallingford Room 1 at MidState Medical Center unless otherwise stated.
Registration Required

Nutrition – Part 1 Wednesdays, July 9 and September 3 9:00-10:00am
Nutrition – Part 2 Wednesdays, July 16 and September 10 9:00-10:00am
Medication Education Wednesdays, July 23 and September 17 9:00-10:00am
Stress Management Wednesdays, July 30 and September 24 9:00-10:00am

Weight Management Program
Please call Karen Darley, LCSW to register - 203-694-8343

Weight Loss Surgery Informational Seminar

Tuesdays, July 1, August 5, September 9, 2008 7:00 – 8:30pm
This seminar is an opportunity for individuals considering weight loss surgery to meet with our Weight Management Program Team and learn about the option of weight loss surgery. A bariatric surgeon will cover the medical/surgical aspects of obesity and the benefits of weight loss surgery; Our dietician will talk about nutritional issues with a focus on post-op diet; Our pharmacist will briefly discuss medication issues and there will be a discussion on behavioral/emotional aspects of the surgery. July 1 and August 5 will be located at MidState Medical Center – Location signs will be posted at Main entrance. September 9 will be held at the Southington Library, Program Meeting Room, 255 Main Street. Registration Required

Weight Loss Surgery Support Group

Tuesdays July 1, 2008 (open meeting) Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Eating After Bariatric Surgery – Your Questions Answered! Presented by Keri Kemish, RD
August 5, 2008 (open meeting) Body Recontouring After Bariatric Surgery. Presented by Dr. Deborah Pan & Dr. Javier D’Avila, Plastic & Reconstructive Surgeons.
September 2, 2008 (closed meeting) Give Me Strength! The Power Of Positive Affirmation. Presented by Karen Darley, LCSW
5:30 - 6:30pm (for all meetings) MidState Medical Center – Location signs will be posted at the main entrance Registration preferred.

For the Health of It

COMING IN OCTOBER – Please look for further information in the next edition of FOCUS or call for additional information.
Commit to a healthy, active lifestyle! Please join us for our popular “For the Health of It” series where you will learn about living healthier. Presentations will be provided by clinical members of our Weight Management Team.
Call Karen Darley, Weight Management Program Coordinator at 203-694-8343

Preparing for Weight Loss Surgery: A Coping Skills Group

8 Consecutive Thursday Evenings – September 4, 11, 18, 25 and October 2, 9, 16, 23 5:30 – 7:00pm
Comprehensive preoperative preparation program for individuals currently engaged in MidState Medical Center’s Weight Loss Surgery Program. Gain insight and knowledge about your eating behaviors and learn the skills necessary to be successful in achieving and sustaining your weight loss goals! Group size limited to 10 participants to enable members the opportunity to learn and grow in a warm, accepting environment.
Karen Darley, LCSW MidState Medical Center – Location signs will be posted at the main entrance
Cost is $50 Scholarships available if fee is a financial hardship Beverages will be available

TRIPS for our PRESTIGE members: For reservations and information about these day trips, please call the Prestige Club at 203-694-8733 or email prestige@midstatemedical.org

Newport RI in Style Saturday, August 2, 2008
Lunch buffet and shopping at the famous Brick Market Place
Cruise Newport Harbor and Narragansett Bay on the Majestic, Newport’s premier cruise vessel and end the day with a tour of the historic 10-mile drive, one of the most popular “drives” in the country.
$68 per person

Saratoga Raceway Saratoga Springs, NY Saturday, August 23, 2008
Continental breakfast, snacks, beverages, wine coolers will be served and on the way home we’ll make a quick stop for dinner.
You will arrive at the race track prior to post time with ample time to find your seat and place your bets!
$77 per person

Fall Foliage in Vermont Wednesday, September 24, 2008
We begin our day with a scenic ride to the picturesque area of Woodstock, VT and then stop at Sugar Bush Farm made famous for their excellent cheese and pure maple syrup. Next we’ll stop in the 1840 farm house gift shop and then enjoy a scenic view on our way to the charming Woodstock Inn for lunch. Quechee Gorge with its landscape dominated by exceptional geological formations and picturesque waterfalls will be our last stop.
$75 per person

Radio City Christmas Spectacular

The Radio City Christmas Spectacular staring the world famous Radio City Rockettes is an unparalleled show featuring the Rockettes signature eye high kicks, and precision choreography in multiple show stopping numbers inspiring over 65 million people for more than 75 years.
Many dates available: November 11, 15, 21; December 1, 5, 13 and 20th
Prices ranging from $110 - $160 per person
Call for details.

**PICK-UP LOCATION WILL BE AT THE BEE STREET COMMUTER PARKING LOT IN MERIDEN. Pick-up and drop off times to be determined.


Understanding Memory Loss

By Carol Carbutti

What is memory loss?

Memory loss is something we all experience in life. We forget familiar names, we cannot remember where we left our wallets and purses the previous evening, and we can’t remember everything needed at the grocery store without having a list. This type of memory loss is perfectly normal and as we age, such mild forgetfulness may start happening more and more.

However there are also times when memory loss is not attributed to aging. For example, memory loss is one of the first signs of Alzheimer’s disease. Memory loss can also happen after suffering a traumatic experience. It can happen if you suffer from depression or are lonely, sad, worried and even when you’re bored. It can result from dehydration, or after falling and hitting your head, or because of the way different medications you’re taking interact with one another. Excessive use of drugs and alcohol can also be factors in memory loss.

When does memory loss occur?

Every person is different, but most will begin noticing forgetfulness around mid-life. What happens with memory loss is that over the course of your life, your brain cells start to die off causing a normal decline in your brain’s ability to remember.

Sometimes brain cells become damaged, such as after a stroke or a series of mini-strokes. Strokes interfere with the normal flow of blood to the brain, oftentimes decreasing its supply. Head injuries can also damage brain cells and cause memory loss.

Demystifying some common myths associated with memory loss

Memory loss cannot be reversed

This is true if the memory loss is a symptom of another condition or disease such as Alzheimer’s. However, if your problems are caused by drug interactions, a change in your prescription may help. If it’s due to excessive alcohol consumption, cutting back can help. If it’s because of a traumatic experience you may need professional guidance to help you to work through the situation. These scenarios are associated with “reversible” memory loss and as the name implies, the associated memory loss oftentimes can be reversed.

There aren’t any exercises for the mind

This isn’t true and mind exercises can help sharpen your memory so that you don’t forget quite as often. Eating right and exercising provide valuable nutrients and improve circulation to the brain. Playing cards, learning new skills, doing puzzles and brain teasers, and maintaining an active and social life can all benefit your mind and help you stay focused and alert.

Memory loss happens naturally as we age

While this is probably true, it is never a good idea to assume that your forgetfulness is “normal.” It could be the sign of another condition. That’s why it is very important to share this problem with your medical specialist. Urine and blood tests, CAT scans, and recall tests in which the doctor asks you questions in an effort to determine how well you recall information can all be administered to help rule out other causes of memory loss.

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Wednesday, June 25, 2008

You are cordially invited

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Saturday, June 21, 2008

Hubbard Park Playground Opening Ceremony

to the official opening of Adventure Hollow, The New Hubbard Park Playground.

Your support has made this dream of an all-accesible playground possible.

The ceremony will take place at the playground in Hubbard Park on Wednesday, July 2nd at 5:30 p.m.

Please bring the entire family!

Thank you again for making this dream come true for so many .

Sincerely,
Maryann Santos, Joan Goodman & Dawn A. Niereburg-Reynolds

The Hubbard Park Playground Committee

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Tuesday, June 17, 2008

PLEASE HELP Jake DeMarco

PLEASE HELP Jake DeMarco
Dear friends,
In 2004, Jake DeMarco graduated from Lyman Hall High School healthy and excited about attending Johnson and Wales University, having been awarded a full scholarship to pursue a career in hospitality management. Jake today is bed-ridden, overwhelmed by disabling pain and chronic vomiting, and facing lifelong paralysis. Jake has overcome challenges throughout his twenty years, but none of this physical magnitude. His grandmother and legal guardian has contacted me to ask for help.
Jake suffers from Chiari Malformation, a birth defect illness whose systems do not present until early adulthood. In simple terms, a herniation of the cerebellum, the bottom part of the brain, descends out of the skull and crowds the spinal cord, putting pressure on both the brain and the spinal cord. It took nearly a year to identify Jake’s disease, and state and federal services are still being negotiated. The only intervention is Chiari Decompression Surgery, which will alleviate Jake’s pain and allow him the ability to become mobile, but there is no cure.
Jake’s problem is that the increasing size of his herniation has made decompression surgery an immediate need, but the cost is prohibitive. Few surgeons in CT have ever done this very specialized surgery, but at the Chiari Institute in Great Neck, New York, which was developed in 2001, they have performed thousands of these surgeries and are recognized world-wide as the best chance any Chiari patient has for a successful outcome. You can find more information at www.conquerchiari.org.
Please help those of us who were touched by the grace and dignity of Jake Demarco during his high school career to help fund the cost of his surgery. There is no cure, but if Jake’s pain can be alleviated and he can regain his mobility, you will have provided Jake some hope from the despair he faces today.
Contributions should be made out to the Jake DeMarco, Chiari Fund, Peoples United Bank, 930 North Colony Road, Wallingford, CT 06492 c/o Heather Abel.
Thank you in advance for any contribution that will get Jake to the Chiari Institute as soon as possible.
Sincerely,
Andrew Candido
sTC Coordinator
Jake’s Foodservice teacher at LHHS in 2004

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Thursday, June 12, 2008

Red Cross Blood Drive

Hi everyone, The Red Cross is holding a blood drive next Tuesday from 1:00 to 6:30 p.m. at Temple B'nai Abraham 127 East Main Street in Meriden. (See the attached press release).
Even I, the big scaredy cat of needles and blood, am going to donate. Please donate if you are able to and please share this message with others you think would donate. The phone number to call is 1-800-GIVELIFE or you can just walk in.
Parking is in back. Take East Main Street to Pleasant Street (next to Augusta Curtis Cultural Center) and take second right. Follow signs for Temple parking. Thank you. Joan
Temple B’nai Abraham 127 East Main Street Meriden CT 06450

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Connecticut Water Trails Day

Connecticut Water Trails Day Saturday June 14, 2008 Everything Starts at 10 am Come Out To Learn About And Enjoy One Of Connecticut's Water Trails And Find Out More About The Connecticut Water Trails Association EVENTS: Beginner Canoe Training at 10 am QRWA Building at Hanover Pond 540 Oregon Road, Meriden Guided Trip Down The Upper Quinnipiac Canoeable Trail at 1 pm QRWA Building at Hanover Pond 540 Oregon Road, Meriden SPONSORED BY: The Quinnipiac River Watershed Association Collinsville Canoe and Kayak For More Information About The Event QRWA 203-237-2237

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Governor Rell Signs Nurse Staffing Bill at MidState Medical Center



Governor Rell Signs Nurse Staffing Bill at MidState Medical Center

Governor M. Jodi Rell paid a special visit to MidState Medical Center in Meriden on Wednesday, June 11, to sign a bill that aims to ensure all Connecticut hospitals maintain sufficient nursing care.

Beginning July 1, 2009, the act requires each licensed hospital, upon request, to make available to the Department of Public Health (DPH) a prospective nurse staffing plan and a written certification that the plan is able to provide appropriate patient health care services.

“The bottom line is patient care, and we’re going to need the nurses that will make that happen,” said Governor Rell.

In her opening remarks, MidState Medical Center President & CEO, Lucille Janatka, said, “We are confident that this bill will ensure all Connecticut hospitals recognize the impor­tance of adequate nurse staffing and help promote ex­cellent quality standards.”

Connecticut’s approach to nurse staffing is different than many other states, particularly California, where a nurse-to-­patient ratio system requires the upholding of designated nurse staffing levels. Conversely, Connecticut’s new law gives state hospitals much more flexibility. It specifically requires that registered nurses make up at least 50 per­cent of the hospital committee that reports to the state.

Requiring hospitals to main­tain nurse ratios “doesn’t solve the problem,” said Cindy Russo, Mid State’s Vice President of Pa­tient Care. Connecticut’s ap­proach “doesn’t tie our hands,” she said.
State officials and Connecticut Hospital Association (CHA) executives were present for the signing ceremony. Dr. Mary Jane Williams, Chair of the CT Nurses’ Association Government Relations Committee; Joanne Chapin, AFT Health Care representative; and Jennifer Jackson, CHA President & CEO, also delivered opening remarks. Jennifer acknowledged her pride in being a nurse herself and her profound respect for those delivering care the bedside. “This bill ensures ongoing quality and patient safety,” she remarked.

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Our Own Marissa Cardona on TV

Good afternoon everyone. Just want to ask you to tune in to NBC Channel 30 (News) on Sunday at 5:30am or record it if you have TIVO :) I was interviewed on the Adelante Show - a Spanish show focusing on the Connecticut Community and Issues of Importance.

I talked about our campaign and how people can sign up to join our efforts. The first segment of the interview is with the American Red Cross and I am in the second segment.

The show will also air on Telemundo this Saturday at 7am.

Please make sure to let your Spanish speaking contacts know how they can tune in.

Take care and have a lovely week,

Marissa Cardona
Community Organizer
healthcare4every1 Campaign
(203) 815-5680
cardonm@cox.net

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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

“Kick Off to Summer” BBQ


The Wallingford Family YMCA is having its “Kick Off to Summer” BBQ. Sunday, June 22, 2008 from 12:00 – 2:00PM.

The Wallingford Family YMCA will provide the hot dogs, hamburgers and the condiments please come and bring your favorite dish to share with others. This will get families a chance to get together and meet the YMCA Camp Staff. Looking forward to seeing you then.

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Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Help those in need by donating your time


Help those in need by donating your time

Meriden-Wallingford Chrysalis is looking for volunteers to support survivors of domestic violence.

Twenty hours of training is necessary to become a certified domestic violence advocate. The trainings will be held at our main office 5 Colony Street Suite 302 Meriden, CT.

Please hurry! The next training will begin June 30, 2008 from 5:30-8:30. Please contact 203-630-1638 for more information and application materials.


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Brochure on excessive heat and preventing heat-related illness


Brochure on excessive heat and preventing heat-related illness available by clicking on the title link above.

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Avoid Eating Certain Types of Raw Red Tomatoes

Avoid Eating Certain Types of Raw Red Tomatoes
Please share this information as even McDonalds has stopped serving Tomatoes! Andy - andy@peoplespressnews.com - www.peoplespressnews.com.

Department of Consumer Protection Warns Consumers to Temporarily Avoid Eating Certain Types of Raw Red Tomatoes

Hartford, June 9 -- In response to the expanded Food and Drug Administration (FDA) warning to consumers that a salmonellosis outbreak has been linked to consumption of certain uncooked tomatoes and products containing these tomatoes, the Department of Consumer Protection is urging consumers to avoid eating any of the products that may be involved.

The implicated products are uncooked (raw) red Roma, red plum, red round tomatoes, or products that contain these types of tomatoes, such as salsas, salads, and guacamole. However, all varieties of tomatoes from Arkansas, California, Georgia, Hawaii, North Carolina, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, Belgium, Canada, Dominican Republic, Guatemala, Israel, Netherlands, and Puerto Rico can still be consumed. Home grown tomatoes, cherry tomatoes, grape tomatoes, and tomatoes sold with the vine still attached are reported to be safe.
“At least one illness related to this outbreak has been reported in Connecticut, so we are paying very close attention to the issue,” Farrell said. “Connecticut consumers need to take precautions, and should ask for the source of the tomatoes they are buying. If the tomatoes already at home can’t be tracked to their source from any label or packaging, it’s best to avoid eating them until more information becomes available. We continue to work closely with the FDA and our own State public health officials on this.”

Salmonella can cause serious and sometimes fatal infections particularly in young children, frail or elderly people, and those with weakened immune systems. Healthy persons often experience fever, diarrhea (which may be bloody), nausea, vomiting, and abdominal pain. In rare circumstances, the organism can get into the bloodstream and produce more severe illnesses. Consumers who have recently eaten raw tomatoes or foods containing raw tomatoes and are experiencing any of these symptoms should contact their health care provider. All Salmonella infections should be reported to state or local health authorities.

Information on safe handling of produce can be found at
http://www.cfsan.fda.gov/~dms/prodsafe.html

Tomato consumer page can be found at
www.fda.gov/oc/opacom/hottopics/tomatoes.html

Updates on the recall from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention can be found at
www.cdc.gov/

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Monday, June 9, 2008

Get Ready to Golf!

Get Ready to Golf!

The Quinnipiac Chamber of Commerce will present the 24th Annual Tom Groves Golf Classic on Monday, June 30, 2008 at Wallingford Country Club, 195 Long Hill Road in Wallingford.

The $199.00 entry fee includes greens fees, cart rental, picnic buffet, hotdog at Eagles Nest, cocktail hour, dinner, and a ticket for the drawing to putt for $10,000!

A portion of the proceeds will be put into the Quinnipiac Business Education Foundation scholarship to provide support for area students who plan to pursue a career in business.

Please register online at www.quinncham.com or email maribel@quinncham.com or call 269-9891.

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